It seems like just yesterday I was a teen fielding babysitting requests for New Year's Eve. Now the tables have turned and I'm the one making panicked calls to the daughters of my friends.

New to this game? Here are a few pointers, from someone who's seen both sides...

Wanted: a mature sitter with experience
Budget: not important
Solution: hire a service

A professional sitter should be insured and have a recent criminal background check on file with the service. Rates will vary widely by city, but expect to pay at least $15-20/hour plus travel time. Professional sitters may not service all areas or may restrict the number of children per caretaker, so be prepared to call around.

Wanted: a familiar family friend
Budget: restricted
Solution: hire your friend's daughter

Teens set their own rates, but expect to pay a premium on hot nights like New Year's Eve or Valentine's Day. The number of children will play a role in the price and post-midnight hours are extra. However, they may be willing to stay overnight if appropriate (for free during the hours when you are there). Since you will probably have to drive them home, the lateness of your return will make this easier on everyone. Budget at least $5 per child/hour or $10/hr for 3-4 kids plus a tip.

If the people you're partying with have children in the same age group, you can hire several sitters for the whole bunch at one house. Be specific about which person has overall responsibility. The rates should be negotiable. Order some pizzas and rent a few movies - simple!

If this is Baby's first time with a new sitter, ask him/her to come early for an hour or so. As a bonus, you will have time to put on your makeup in peace ;)

Expect basic childcare duties only. If you'd like the sitter to tidy up the kitchen or help with a school project, it should be discussed ahead of time. Leave more than one phone number where you may be reached and always provide a list of emergency contacts, including Grandma and Grandpa.

Have a tip for a nervous parent?

by Claire Rahn