on Feb 11, 2013 @ 11:09 pm|
So after a while of playing along for the sake of what feels like one sided love it feels like its officially over. I mean I stood by this guy through abuse, immaturity, disrespect and so on.he never aclnowledges what I do and makes it seem like the things he did when we first got together so many years ago amounted to more I've done since. He doesn't treat me like how normal men treat their gf/wives and its gotten to the point where much of him/his habits is just gross and irritating to me and God knows when it comes time for him to ask for sex I dread it. I just feel alone and stuck. We have kids and he isn't approachable AT ALL.
|- on Feb 12, 2013 @ 09:57 am|
Time to leave.
We put up with more than we have to.
Dont allow this in your life. Ultimately, YOU have to teach people how to treat you. Even if that means taking a bold step and walking away.
|Over on Feb 12, 2013 @ 10:15 am|
It sounds like your at the right place, and by that, I mean ready to leave. The important thing now is to make sure that you follow through and stick to your guns.
The saying, while a tad cheesy and sentimental rings true: we accept the love that we think we deserve. Recognize that you deserve better and move on to a better place so you can accept it.
|Tough on Feb 12, 2013 @ 11:53 am|
I have been there and it is so hard when kids are involved.You are acknowledging you know its time to move on.Even though there will be lots of tears and hard to move on you will soon realize you made the best choice for you and your children.Good Luck
|Time to leave. on Feb 12, 2013 @ 12:36 pm|
It will be really hard. But it's definitely time to leave. You have children, always put them first. Do you really want this kind of person around them? Influencing them? Probably not. I would leave now, before it's too late - and something bad happens (abuse, etc).
|definitely get out of there! on Feb 12, 2013 @ 07:02 pm|
It will probably be the hardest thing you have to do, but just remember, from there you will have nowhere to go but up! Especially for the sake of your kids, it's time to end things (sounds like you already know that though!) Be strong and keep smiling. Best of luck <3
Ali de Bold
|The kids on Feb 13, 2013 @ 01:36 pm|
You absolutely have to put their needs first. If you are in an abusive situation, that is not an environment you want them to grow up in. Your children are learning from the two of you what a relationship is and if it's a bad relationship you need to do something.
|You first on Sep 02, 2013 @ 07:20 am|
It's crazy but as soon as you see him as gross or ugly or in any way less than perfect, the respect and admiration has gone. If you do land up staying it is not for love and if it is not for love then you are wasting your time. You need to learn to walk away from anything that does not make you happy and anything that does not bring out the best in you. Sticking next to a guy through thick and thin when he is not doing any of the stuff he should be doing to make it work is silly actually.
|Yep it is over on Sep 03, 2013 @ 08:52 am|
When you get to that point, it is definitely time to move on. It would be near impossible to get the magic back... and would you even want to if he doesn't appreciate you? You certainly don't sound happy at all. As hard as it may be because this relationship is "comfortable" and venturing out on your own can be scary, you deserve a man who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. I know it seems like there aren't any good men out there but there are. I was in a really bad relationship because I was at the point where I felt like I didn't deserve better and I figured oh well it is better than being alone... well I finally got the guts to leave him and was so much happier on my own and happier with myself that I ended up meeting the man of my dreams... you deserve better! Just let him go, for you and your kids... they will be happier when they have a mom who is happy. :) I wish you all the strength in the world. You can do this and you deserve this :)
|OMG,This is Over. on Aug 13, 2014 @ 08:36 am|
In the first place,what in the name of ....are you doing with a Guy who treats you this bad?Don't you feel you deserve much better in life for you and your Kids?I would not spend one Day with someone who treats me like that,and your kids deserve so much better.This may affect them when they get older.You never mentioned how old they are but,reading what you just wrote sounds to me like a abusive relationship.You need to make a good life for both you and your Kids because you sound like you definately deserve it.I feel so bad for you and your Family.It amazes me how (some Men) change so much after Marriage.It's like a Jeckyl and Hyde saga.Time to move on and find someone who will treat you and your kids with respect and give you the kind of life that you drserve.
|Leave and dont look back. on Aug 31, 2014 @ 06:40 pm|
Leave and dont look back. You'll be better for it.