how can I explain to him?

on Apr 16, 2012 @ 05:22 am

I am not sure whether anyone of your guys here like zentai, but I do.
I know such things from one of my friend in colledge and he is a nice guy, we often share this hobby together and exchange clothes each other,

while in recent days he treat me extremely good, which exceeds the common relation ship between frieds, which made me uneasy, because I always treat him my best friends instead of wanner a further relations, I have also confess my feeling but it do not work, he just said I love the hobby because I love him, ..////// this of course is completely rediculous, I sometimes thinks about give up the hobby and so I can away from him, but it is so facy, so how can I explain to him?

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.... on Apr 16, 2012 @ 11:43 am

I had to google this one. So Zentai is skin-tight lycra that covers you from head to foot. It's like what the men in blue wear..sorta. It's a Japanese fetish. hmm. I can't say I know anyone who indulges in it. I do see why he would fancy you if you're sharing this hobby together. You're both basically naked together with a different coloured skin. Basically. I imagine if he's into this sort of thing, it'd be a turn on for him. And if he tells you he's into you, you're telling him verbally that you don't see him that way, but you're still sharing this hobby with him, he's probably feeling like he's getting mixed signals. Unless I'm totally off, you're getting a coloured version of naked with this guy, and you're telling him that you don't see him that way; I can see why he's getting mixed signals. The only suggestion I can offer is perhaps think of not doing this with him? Do this on your own at your own time?

I apologize if I'm totally off base on what "zentai" is.

yea, better give it off on Apr 17, 2012 @ 05:28 am

actually that is what google has told us, but we are much traditional on doing this, we just consider it a nice cloth and enjoy the feeling from the slightly tight, by wearing it i feel the freedom and relax./..//./././././. not naked actually,.,.,.. but ,well that's for me, I am not sure whether the google saying goes more to him, ,, so you just awared me of this, I doubt maybe he mixed signals.

Zentai on Apr 17, 2012 @ 02:43 pm

It doesn't sound like this relationship is mutually beneficial.
You may both be getting some benefit out of it but it may end up ruining your friendship if you don't nip it in the bud.
There are lots of people who love Zentai and i'm sure you could find a group of people who love it for the reasons that you do online.
He could do the same.
Clearly you love it for different reasons, so wouldn't it be better to share it with people who feel the same way?
You may have to stop sharing this hobby with him completely. He clearly isn't understanding what you're trying to tell him and chances are he never will.
Good luck, lady!

I agree on Apr 17, 2012 @ 02:48 pm

I agree with Sirenstarlight, find a group of people online who like it for the same reasons you do so that there are no mixed emotions/signals in the future.

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