on Oct 15, 2009 @ 05:28 pm|
Me and my ex had unprotected sex on Oct 4th and 12th...I was suppose to get my period on Oct 11th but I still haven't started. I'm getting nauseous, eating more then usually, I feel bloated, and I'm consistently tired...Do you think I'm pregnant??
Ali de Bold
|No idea on Oct 15, 2009 @ 08:55 pm|
The only way you can know for certain is the Doctor.
Something you should consider is, is your ex really someone you want to be having unprotected sex with? If you do get pregnant is it fair to bring a baby into an unstable relationship?
|am i prego?? on Oct 16, 2009 @ 01:43 am|
thank you for the quick reply..me and my ex have been together for 4 years and just resently broke up about a month or 2 ago. im am in love with him and know that he is someone i want to have kids with im just not sure if the right time is now
|See doctor immediately on Oct 16, 2009 @ 10:44 am|
I agree - the only way to know for sure is to go to a Doctor. My symptoms were pretty obvious - I was extremely tired to the point like I got hit with a mack truck, I was peeing like a horse, and had major headaches. I then bought a pregnancy test and did 2 then booked an appt. when it showed it was positive.
In regards to the ex - yes it may not be the smartest move or the right time to be having a baby with an ex. But only you know your relationship with your ex. I was in a similar situation when I got prego but was on the pill and still got pregnant. It was a rough couple of months with the ex and I but we had also been together for years. In the end it is 3 yrs later, happily married with our 3 yr old son. :) Every situation is different so who knows what the outcome will be. But always remember the focus should be on you and your baby - if the ex is causing too much negativity you may need to make a decision whether to move on without him or tell him that he has to accept it - should you decide to keep the baby (or if you're even prego!). Just things to think about. Good luck and I hope it all works out!
|your symptoms on Oct 16, 2009 @ 12:19 pm|
Those symptoms are true of pregnancy, and they are true of PMS too. You really can only get confirmation from a doctor.
You can certainly try a home pregnancy test, as long as it's at least 5 days after your missed period. I have heard that the early detection tests can be inaccurate, so to be on the safe side I'd wait - and if you were due the 11th, you could test today.
Could you be pregnant if you had sex on the 4th? Absolutely. It falls outside the "normal" fertile period, but you can get pregnant at any time.
I hope all works out for you! Keep us posted *hugs*