|a thought on Jun 27, 2012 @ 10:09 am|
From what I understand is many guys are into the idea until the time actually comes to follow through. This is because they are responsible for pleasuring, not one but two women, and one women can be hard enough. I think anyone that I know that has had a threesome, regretted it, typically due to it causing a problem in their relationship, even if the girl was the one who suggested it.
I think a threesome could work only under the condition that its a full out three-way no strings attached and none of the participants are tied to either of the other romantically. I don't care how secure someone is, I would not be okay with my man touching another woman sexually. I think if a romantic relationship is between any of the participants it will cause conflict.
|variety on Jun 27, 2012 @ 08:34 pm|
I think couples do this to try and "spice up" a stale relationship, because men are into "being with someone new" and if role playing in costumes doesn't do that, they think having a different woman will. Some women go along with it because they think it will fix the relationship, and I guess for some people it can, but I can't imagine that personally. i think if you are that bored of each other, just break up, or make it an open relationship. I think guys are a lot less willing to have a 3some if its with another guy.
|Slippery Slope on Jul 03, 2012 @ 12:45 am|
I never had, and never will. Other people/couples are able to fully cope, so to speak, with the situation. I am married and monogamous, perhaps if the right people approached at the right time when I was single, I might of gave it a whirl. I share well, but just not my husband. My advice to people thinking about it is if you have any ounce of doubt or concern on how this will effect your relationship, well being (physically and mentally) don't do it. Only do it if you are 100% committed to it and Ok with what might come of it.
|I wouldn't write it off on Jul 05, 2012 @ 08:07 pm|
I can never say that I'd never say "yes" but the situation would need to be right
|I dont really think its right on Jul 07, 2012 @ 10:05 pm|
they can seem very steamy and sexy but in reality if you're married its wrong. you shouldn't want to have sex with anyone but your partner.
|NOT FOR ME! on Jul 16, 2012 @ 05:38 pm|
I've discussed this with my boyfriend - Not to have one, but what we thought of it. I honestly don't think I could stomach seeing my boyfriend with another female. It wouldn't be good, Lol. But, I'd definitely never write it off.. You never know what the future may hold for you!
|yes on Feb 11, 2013 @ 10:54 pm|
I'm sure it could maybe be a decent experience but from my own experience if its with your bf then no. Men want their cake and to eat it too and I've lost a good relationship from opening that can of worms.
|I have! on Feb 12, 2013 @ 07:12 pm|
It just kind of "happened" one night, but I was the 'third person' so to speak as it was with a couple who had been dating for about a year. Both of them are my good friends, we were all really drunk, and like I said it just kind of started! It was a lot of fun, not too sure i'd ever do it again so to speak (i wouldn't go looking for it that is), but they're both really chill people so I think that's a major factor in how to played out so well. I was really surprised with my one friend (the girl) for letting it happen...I was very hesitant at first because I thought she'd end up regretting it, but she was really into it! We're still friends and hang out all the time, it's not awkward or anything, it was just sex. (They're still dating too btw!)
I think if you're married to someone then that's a little different, unless both people really want to experiment with this sort of thing. But I can envision a lot of scenarios where one person would get pushed into something like this to 'spice up' the marriage as someone else mentioned, even though they didn't really want to.
|Double standard. on Feb 13, 2013 @ 02:39 am|
The idea is sexy , of course it is. We are erotic beings , and extremely curious at that. I think it is something I could do if I wasn't in a relationship. I am a woman and for me I say to any guy " You want two girls, but could you handle me with you and another man?" NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOooooooooo is always the answer. Men don't see another woman as a threat so they can detach from it much easier. However I know if I love someone I don't want ANYONE in our bed other than us. The idea is sexy, but the reality of my love with someone else if gut wrenching. I want a man that feels the same if he is with me.
To each their own though. I don't think there is a right or wrong, we are all different <3
Just don't do it for any other reason than it feels 100% right for YOU, at the end of the day/week/year/years you have your mind and your heart to live with.
Ali de Bold
|No thanks on Feb 13, 2013 @ 01:46 pm|
I have no personal experience with this but I'd never do it.