on Mar 18, 2009 @ 12:06 am|
ok... i wanna know does it hurt when u have sex for the first time? i am nineteen and have done other stuff but have not lost my virginity yet! i keep hearing from different people that it does hurt your first time and others say it was nothing. im not saying i want to lose it but have been in situations where i have almost lost it and im mostly scared of me being in alot of pain. IF IT HAPPENS IT HAPPENS but i at least want to know more or less about your first time. so if u can please give me some feedback...thanks!
|the first time on Mar 18, 2009 @ 08:19 am|
It depends.... your size, his size, how aroused you are, whether you're using lubricant, etc. Also expect that the day or so afterward it may burn a little to pee - this is normal!
In my experience it did hurt, but I was with someone who loved me and I him. It was special and worth the pain, which really only lasted for a few minutes and then eased off into discomfort. If you're aroused, it won't bother you as much - afterward you may feel more sore than during. Again, it depends.
I think that the more you psych yourself out about it, the worse it seems - like getting a needle or pulling out a splinter. Try to relax (I know, easier said than done!) and it will be better.
Above all, remember to protect yourself. Try condoms with spermicidal lubricant - no one likes a rubber but it's so important!