Boyfriend "liked" the picture of a half nude girl on Facebook. Do I have the right to be upset? Or is this nothing and I'm making too big of a deal out of it?


Anonymous
on Jul 24, 2012 @ 11:50 am

So before you read this you have to realize that I'm not one of those controlling girlfriends that get jealous over everything. 'Cause the thing is, I'm not like that at all! I could care less if my boyfriend hangs out with other girls because I have guy friends too and I understand. It's whatever! Guys and girls can hang out and just be friends!

But I just logged onto Facebook and yet again I saw that he liked a picture of these girl's thats posing almost half nude.
I know that he's not going to try and get with her obviously.
I'm not freaking out over it. I just want to know, do I have the right to be upset? Or is this nothing and I'm making too big of a deal out of it?

Its just all of his friends are jokes about it. 
And making me feel like a real fool..
Its been about a month and a few weeks now..
Should I say something or leave him.
 

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Anonymous
BOYFRIEND "LIKED" THE PICTURE OF A HALF NUDE GIRL ON FACEBOOK. DO I HAVE THE RIGHT TO BE UPSET? OR IS THIS NOTHING AND I'M MAKING TOO BIG OF A DEAL OUT OF IT? on Jul 24, 2012 @ 11:53 am

Wrong typo - I didn't mean to say leave him..
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Bren
Dont Worry on Jul 24, 2012 @ 12:45 pm

I think that is totally normal...I see guys and woman liking pictures like that all the time on facebook.I would think it would be a different story if hes making rude comments or saying sexual things about the pictures.But just pressing the like button seems pretty harmless.

If its really bothering you then tell him casually it bothers you. Thats what relationships are for to be honest and able to talk about anything even if its a minor thing that is bothering you.

Guys are very visual and its very normal for them to look at a pretty girl it doesn't mean they want to cheat.Some people may disagree with me on this one but that is how I feel about it...good Luck :)


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AlexJC
Forget it! on Jul 24, 2012 @ 01:15 pm

I wouldn't be too happy about that either if I were you but I don't think it means anything so I don't think you should be too upset. It's a but rude but think of it this way- if there was something going on, or if there was something you should be worried about, he wouldn't have been so blatant about it. He must have known somehow that you would or could see that he liked it. Like @Bren said, if it really bugs you, say something and if it continues or he is commenting etc. then say something but otherwise, forget it. The picture isn't worth your time spent worrying!
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beachbabe
I'd be mad! on Jul 26, 2012 @ 03:17 pm

I feel ya, I'd be upset too. I understand men are very different from women and are very visual. However, if you're in a relationship with someone I think it's downright rude to publicly gawk at other women. Sure he's only liking it on Facebook but I would view it as he's not really honoring and respecting you. I also come from a Christian background where views on looking at women other than your wife (or girlfriend) is pretty much never ok. Of course I'm not naive enough to think it works that way but I DO think an honorable man will protect his eyes and mind to try his best to only view and think of one woman.

Of course whether you agree or disagree with my statements it clearly bothers you and you should have a discussion.
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Tiffmorris
disrespectful on Jul 26, 2012 @ 04:50 pm

My opinion is that publicly liking or commenting on a pic of a half nude girl is disrespectful to you and your relationship.

We are all human and there will always be someone attractive out there that men and women notice. It's one thing for him to check out the pics in private, and to keep his comments to just his buddies about whether a girl is hot, but the second its in setting that is public and openly in front of you then it shows disrespect to you and your relationship.


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babypiggy_83
Wouldn t Worry Too Much... on Jul 29, 2012 @ 09:33 pm

I wouldn t worry to much about it. It s not as if he s ever going to meet her. But it s hard to admit the jealous factor. Men will do these things, for what sake? To make us jealous? i don t know. And if the pic doesn t do anything for him, why 'like' it? It seems that if we did the same thing with a 'guy s pic/s' we get asked a lot of questions about it. I d try to not worry and don t think about it. Good luck.
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Ali de Bold
Not cool on Jul 30, 2012 @ 09:58 am

I don't know, I think that's a bone-headed move on his part. I don't think someone in a relationship should go around 'liking' sexy pictures of other women. It's disrespectful to the one they are with. It's publicly telling her she looks hot. It would be like you 'liking' a picture of a hot muscular guy with no shirt on. He probably wouldn't appreciate that.
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Mensana
So not classy on Dec 29, 2012 @ 06:44 pm

Well, this is akward....
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so_adorkable_
hmm.. on Dec 29, 2012 @ 11:01 pm

I would say I agree with tiffmorris, i do think it's a bit rude to you, maybe just mention that it bothered you, it doesn't have to be a big deal but you can still be honest and let your guy know it bothered you
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KatelynRose1984
Disrespectful. on Dec 31, 2012 @ 06:18 pm

I completely agree, and think it's very disrespectful towards you and your current relationship. I bet if it was the other way around, he'd definitely feel similar.
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