Boyfriend watches porn even though we have sex often?


Anonymous
on Dec 27, 2012 @ 07:48 am

I am in a stable relationship. 
Just found out boyfriend watches porn even though we have sex regularly.

Is it a turn off for some of you?
Or is it okay?

I'm just a little taken back. 
He asked if I wanted to watch it with him instead, I said thats beside the point. 

I just feel if your in a relationship a stable one there's no need to watch porn on the side when you literally get it every day!

What do you guys think?
 


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AlexJC
I wouldn't worry on Dec 27, 2012 @ 10:10 am

I don't think you have anything to worry about. I think a lot of women get worried because they think watching porn means he isn't into you or he doesn't think you're as good but I really don't think that's what it's about. It's just fantasy and pretend and he should know that. Just know that watching porn has nothing to do with how he feels about you or your sex life.
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KatelynRose1984
It's a guy thing.. on Jan 01, 2013 @ 07:35 am

I wouldn't be too concerned about it. It's quite common with guys, and it (most of the time) has nothing to do with their girlfriends, etc. Especially since he invited you to watch with him!
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Ali de Bold
I'm against it on Jan 01, 2013 @ 11:28 am

A lot of women say this doesn't bother them at all but I'm not one of them.
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LissaG
Agree, don't worry about it. on Jan 07, 2013 @ 03:58 pm

As long as he's not spending all day every day watching porn, you have nothing to worry about. VERY standard for guys to watch a lot, even though they're having regular sex. Don't take it personally. Usually it's just a habit for them and they don't even think twice about it. I think it's good that he asked you to watch it with him, it shows he's okay with his interest in it and is comfortable enough to invite you to join him. Totally okay that you said no, but I think it's nice that he offered haha.

However if you find he's choosing to watch porn over spending time with you, you might have a problem on your hands...people really can get addicted to it. And if you tell him you don't want him watching it he might see it as the 'forbidden fruit' and try to watch it more / in secret. But if you let him know you're okay with it, he'll decide he'd much rather play with you than with himself.
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mercurysmile
I wouldn't get too worried on Jan 08, 2013 @ 12:22 am

I think that as long as it isn't affecting the time when you are intimate together (him having difficulties staying aroused, etc.) and it isn't affecting the rest of his life: work, friends, etc. Then I don't see it as a problem.

I could be wrong because I'm not a guy but I think they do it because it's relaxing. It's kind of like alone time and it's just something to do, watch porn and/or masturbate. It isn't because they want to be with those ladies it's just something to look at. It also can have nothing to do with not enough sex, like I said it's like alone time sometimes it's just a good quick stress relief.

I also think it's nice that he offered to watch it with you, I think it was his way of showing you that it isn't a threat because he isn't lying about it or hiding it. You don't have to watch it if you don't want to of course.
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