on Jun 07, 2014 @ 01:40 pm|
I'm considering a move to Calgary for my relationship. I'm in a long distance relationship at the moment and feel its time to put an end to the distance at some point in my near future.
My question is have any of you ladies made the big move for your relationship?? If so how did you go about making new friends?? I worry about being lonely there when my man is away on work. Also, I've never been to Calgary.... is it easy to get around??
Love is worth the risk.... but still feeling a little scared!
|Hm! on Jun 10, 2014 @ 05:09 pm|
I have never been in this situation but I am wondering how long you two have been together. My mom always said that if you are going to move for a man you best have a ring. You don't want to move all the way somewhere new, start over where you don't know anyone, and have him change his mind.
You know your relationship better than anyone else though and if you believe it will work then I believe it too! Just make sure you really think it through! As for making friends I've heard of a website I think it is called Meet Up where you join groups based on similar interests and they meet somewhere in your area and you can make friends that way! You'll already have something in common with them!
|Very good points! on Jun 10, 2014 @ 10:51 pm|
We have been together for only a year and half. I've definitely considered what you're saying about putting a ring on it first but honestly that's just not a realistic plan for me. This distance is literally draining my relationship and I feel that in order to move forward and grow to that point of having a ring we need to just live together in the same city.
Thank you SO much for that website! I've never heard of it but it makes my heart smile just knowing that there are ways of meeting friends. I will definitely have to check that out.
The thought of making new friends scares the absolute you know what out of me! I feel like I'm too old and set in my ways to make me friends haha! Might be good to go out of my comfort zone a bit :)