one day, we were sitting at the lunch table with our friends and when i got up to leave he shouted after me asking me out for a drink. i laughed said sure!! and assumed he was joking (because he said it loudly in the canteen with everyone there) (and bc he has a gf).
then, at our Christmas party i told him i was going, he said if i didn't he wouldn't talk to me. I had planned on going and got dressed etc but a family matter occurred so i never got there.
on monday, he looked at me and said 'where were you'? looked disappointed, shrugged his shoulders and looked away. he didn't talk to me for 3 days, he made it a point not to.
yesterday, he asked me out for a drink. i said sure, but then i got a text from my brother asking me to look after my nephew his wife was in labour. i told him i couldn;t go and that we could go next week. he said yeah sure, i knew you wouldn't. and looked me straight in the eye and said I won't ask you again. you keep making excuses.
AGAIN, he looked at me straight in the eye making a point of being serious and then stated that he has asked me 4 times already. i said 'no you haven't' he said 'i have....and i count the christmas party as one too' ... this surprised me a little..christmas party? that wasn't his idea to ask me out. it was a group why would he count that?
then he said to me...you are just afraid of what might happen. i said i'm not. he said you are. kinda got annoyed said i won't ask again and looked away, never said bye.
-wtf? he has a gf already, why would he get angry?
-he keeps telling me he is pissed off with his gf and he doesn't care anymore he is sick of her.
do you think he is looking for more? i don't know what to think. i assumed we were close because our humours are the same, we started work the same month. and we joke a lot. where i work is very serious so i assumed we just clicked in a friendly way and leaned on each other a bit cos we were the newbies...please help