Could you stay with a cheater?


qewtness
on Mar 29, 2016 @ 12:54 pm

I was wondering if anyone have been through this or have a opinion on it.

Please feel free to say whatever you please.

Either you disagree with it or or would plan to give them another chance or can't actually answer unless being in that situation.


For me I have been through it and have chosen to forgive but it wasn't easy.But not everyone could do this.Thats why I want to know what u think about this?


Sound off.....................

 

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jcb75
I have on Mar 29, 2016 @ 01:03 pm

my ex was a serial cheater. I forgave and I forgave and I forgave until I finally said enough. I don't know if I could go through all that again. And it really depends on the circumstance. I'd have an easier time forgiving a one night stand, than I would him having a "relationship" with someone behind my back.
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Stephs.fav.stuff
I have too on Mar 29, 2016 @ 01:19 pm

I did when I was younger.
And... things never got better. I was never really able to trust him again.
Rightfully so, he cheated again. That was the end.
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Bren
No on Mar 29, 2016 @ 01:25 pm

My husband of ten years cheated and I left him 20 years ago.If I cant trust someone it is so hard to try make things work
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Tracyr
. on Mar 29, 2016 @ 02:20 pm

Trust is a huge thing with me and if that trust is broken I would never forgive ,just my opinion though
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fishinggal
. on Mar 29, 2016 @ 02:46 pm

I have never been cheated on or cheated, but I think cheating is unforgivable. I would never be able to fully trust that person again. I think it is also disrespectful. If a relationship is not working, then it's not working and so be it. No need to cheat and hurt someone you are supposed to care for. I think people who cheat are selfish, and you can't be selfish and be in a stable, happy relationship. You have to always think about the other person and put your relationship first.
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wonderwhatif
Yes on Mar 29, 2016 @ 03:20 pm

For me it really depends on circumstance. I think it would be very difficult. A single kiss, or drunken mistake is much more forgiveable, than, for example a relationship.

If your partner feels themselves becoming attracted to another person and is worried about being able to resist, they should turn to you first so you can work on things and everything is out in the open right away.

I do sometimes think cheating can happen out of spite especially if the person is unhappy and has tried to bring it up again and again with their partner, only to be ignored.

So really, for me, it depends, but I honestly don't think my husband would ever cheat on me; it's just not the type of guy he is.
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KrissiC
. on Mar 29, 2016 @ 03:45 pm

I have never been in that situation before but if I was, I think it would depend on the circumstances. A kiss or mistake is easier to forgive than an actual relationship. I think if it was a one time thing I could forgive and hopefully move on with counseling. But, who knows how I'd actually feel? My husband is not that kind of person at all. And I hope to never find myself in such a position.
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Anonymous
cheater? on Mar 29, 2016 @ 07:26 pm

NOOOOO.... I kicked him out after the first time.
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Angelwingsx2
Cheating on Mar 29, 2016 @ 08:46 pm

Sometimes a cheater will be forgiven,especially where there is Children involved.They try to make it work for the kids sake.Some men go through a mid life crisis,I know all this sounds like excuses but,People do go through some sort of crisis until they can make their relationship better and stronger.Some Marriages eg mine:I would throw him out on hid B......and never look back while there are people who loves someone that much,they would rather put up and shut up,than loose him.Everyone is different and I feel for someone in that situation because,no one deserves to be cheated on,remember we took vowes.
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Katguevara
. on Mar 30, 2016 @ 02:28 am

No, I don't think I would be able to look past it. I'm huge on trust in a relationship and it would be a deal breaker for me.
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