Does counselling help?


Anonymous
on Jun 19, 2012 @ 01:24 pm

BEEN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A GUY FOR ABOUT A 2 YEARS THEN HE GOT INTO TROUBLE AND SPENT A YEAR IN JAIL. 

HE CAME OUT AND I DECIDED IT WAS BEST TO JUST BE FRIENDS. HE NEEDED TO GET HIS LIFE BACK ON TRACK ETC ETC.
BUT ONE NIGHT, HE ASKED TO HELP HIM.
SO I WENT OUT AND I DID. WENT BACK TO HIS PLACE TO REST MY FEET AND WATCH A BIT OF TV AND HE JUST RAPED ME THROUGH THE SCREAMS. 
I TRIED TO PUSH HIM OFF ME BUT IT DIDNT WORK.

IM TRYING TO GET OVER IT BUT I ALWAYS HAVE FLASH BACKS OF THAT NIGHT.
I HAVENT CRIED SINCE IT'S HAPPENED.
MAYBE ITS BECAUSE THIS HAS HAPPENED TO ME BEFORE.WHEN I WAS SIX YEARS OLD, MY MOTHER BROTHER RAPED ME.
NOT QUITE GOTTEN OVER THAT TOO.
 
WELL I GOT MYSELF ALL CHECKED OUT.
IM ALL CLEAR OF ANY STD'S.

I WANT TO MOVE ON BUT SO AFRAID YOU KNOW. 

DOES COUNSELLING REALLY HELP?
WAS THINKING OF DOING IT. 
ANYONE EVER BEEN THROUGH WHAT I'VE GONE THROUGH?



 


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Anonymous
please seek help on Jun 19, 2012 @ 01:38 pm

hi there, i havent gone through what you went through, but i believe you need help. i was molested by the husband of my babysitter when i was 7 or 8 years old, it took me so long to not think about it. that guy died about 10 years ago because of old age, and i laughed so hard.

would you consider calling the cops? your exbf did it so wrong, to be honest, anyone who did it to anyone, esp your ex or present bf, deserves to be punished by the legal system. even if was to go to jail again, i think he deserves it.

as for yourself, please seek help, you dont want to be haunted by these nightmares, this is too much for you, please get the help you need. i wish you all the luck and the bestest in the future.

xoxo
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AlexJC
Seek Help on Jun 19, 2012 @ 02:49 pm

Definitely, yes, please go seek help. If you need immediate help, you can contact an emergency service by phone or make an appointment to see a counsellor.

Take care of yourself. Do what is best for you! xxoo
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Malixy
yes on Jun 20, 2012 @ 04:53 am

you should definitely try counceling. If you can't even cry or sleep without nightmares, then your body hasn't yet found a way to handle what has happened, and you need someone to help you work through it. Councillors are trained to know what to do in these situations and can help you over come this, and move past it.
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kitteh
Of course! on Jun 20, 2012 @ 10:34 am

I have to go with the girls.. you should really call the cops on him, it's a bad person, he should be punished. What he did is very serious! You shouldn't hide and keep all those things inside, it's very bad for you.

Don't be shy to go seek some help, i'm pretty sure you'll feel better if you talk about it with a professional.

Take care xx
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