on Feb 05, 2012 @ 12:26 pm|
So I'm in high school and I'm trying to work out if a few guys might like me. I'm not really looking for a relationship, but hey I'm curious and want to ask everyone what they think about this....
So for guy #1. I have known him for a while, but not as friends....we just have classes together. He does not talk to me (he is popular, but I'm not) and yet sometimes he is just looking at me when I walk across the class....this could just be him zoning out however it happens a good amount. Also, once I was driving and I saw him on the street and he saw me in the car and he was just staring. Sometimes I know he sees me, and he just looks and nothing really happens. What does all of this mean? I'm I hoping something is there at really is not! (**note: de does talk to other popular girls, he semi-flirts with them....etc)
Guy #2: He is sort of popular (friends-ish with guy #1) He is in my dramatics class and every time he has to pick someone to go on stage or work with in a demo he picks me. Kind of weird because we are not friends/ not mutual friends at all! He does not talk to me outside of class and he does not really stare in class at me, but I think it is kind of weird that he always picks me for stuff.
What do you think?? Is either guy #1 or guy #2 in to me?? Be honest, I can take it...oh and fyi I'm kinda shy around guys so I won't have the courage to talk to them or ask them if they like me...so I feel sort of stuck and really need some advice!!!
Thanks in advance to everyone! :)
|Tough To Say! on Feb 05, 2012 @ 12:56 pm|
It is a hard call because the truth is that there is not way of truly knowing what these guys feel. It could just be irony, that he stares or he picks you for something, but it seems to me like guy #2 might be into you (especially if it is a re-occurring thing) As for #1 maybe you're just pretty and he is feasting on eye candy during a boring class (ouch, I don't mean to be harsh...) However maybe #1 likes you and is shy about it because he is popular and wants to keep up the persona....I'm sure if one of them is into you, they will make their moves...I mean if they are friends-ish then it could be like a mini competition too....
|One More Note About Guy #1 on Feb 05, 2012 @ 12:58 pm|
Sorry....I wanted to leave this note b/c I forgot it in my forum thread: guy #1 and #2 aare in my dramatics class and one time guy #1 said he was really shy.....however in class he seems confident and loves being stroked and admired, he purrs like a kitten. Is this any clue- maybe he is too shy to tell me how he really feels? Just wanted to put it out there!!
Thanks for any help!!
Ali de Bold
|You will probably find out eventually on Feb 05, 2012 @ 11:04 pm|
Either nothing will happen or eventually one of these guys will ask you out. The question is who do you like? It doesn't hurt to be friendly/approachable.
|Just be friendly! on Feb 08, 2012 @ 09:59 am|
Like @alidebold said, the best advice I can give you is to just be friendly and open. I wouldn't focus too much on either of these guys and if they like you. Just be your regular charming self and if they like you, they will eventually let you know.