Ending a friendship


Tracyr
on Jan 03, 2016 @ 06:16 am

I had this friend for about a year or so and she was a really nice person, but the more I got to know her the more I realized how self absorbed she was,every conversation we ever had was all about her,how she felt,what she did,who she hated,who she was mad at,etc.It got to a point where I had to speak up and tell her how I felt about the friendship, any time I need help or needed to talk about me,she would always blow me off and once again talk about herself,she of course would say she didn't realize she was acting that way but of course she never changed. It got to a point where every time I talked to her and listened to her drama I felt depressed, this woman was literally sucking the happiness out of me,so I ended the friendship, I want to be with people who are considerate and kind and who actually put effort into a friendship. Have any of you Chicks ever had a friend who you thought was self absorbed or just plain old annoying or full of drama ?
 

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Sandra Ribeiro
ending a friendship on Jan 03, 2016 @ 09:57 am

I had a friend who was nice in the beginning. The more I got to know her, the less time I wanted to spend with her. I ended the friendship. We need positive, uplifting people in our loves, not people who are always putting you down
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Tracyr
Sandra on Jan 03, 2016 @ 12:35 pm

Exactly,lifes too short to spend with people who make us unhappy
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sandhur
ending friendships on Jan 03, 2016 @ 01:52 pm

I've had to end a few friendships. They were always about themselves, when they needed me I was there for them, but when I needed them, they were "busy".
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MelRichard
It's hard to end a friendship on Jan 03, 2016 @ 03:27 pm

I had a girl who was a really, really good friend of mine for a number of years. She changed suddenly when her mother became ill - she became selfish, and reckless. I credited it to her mother's illness, but her behavior did not stop once her mother was better. Eventually, I had to end the friendship because she was damaging my self-esteem. I still miss her - but I miss the girl she USED to be, not the girl she is now! Do what's right for you...follow your heart.
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wonderwhatif
. on Jan 03, 2016 @ 03:34 pm

I usually try and give people a lot of chances as I don't have many friends, but if they are toxic I just do the fade away!
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DEANENE
friends on Jan 03, 2016 @ 05:56 pm

I used to be really good friends with one of my cousins but,she started to act so selfish I just stayed away from her It wasn't easy to do but, I did it
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Tracyr
MelRichard on Jan 03, 2016 @ 06:01 pm

You are so right,its really hard ending the friendship,my friend was in the wrong, but I'm the one who felt guilty walking away.
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Tracyr
Deanene on Jan 03, 2016 @ 06:05 pm

Wow,that must of been hard for you,ending a relationship with a relative,that would be alot harder than ending it with a friend.
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martac
, on Jan 04, 2016 @ 12:58 pm

Yes I've been there. I had a friend for years and we had a lot of issues. We decided at the end of the day it was best to end the friendship. It was causing us both stress and we fought a lot. The trust was lost and there was no way to repair it
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colleend
Friends on Jan 05, 2016 @ 04:52 am

I always said spend time with people who make you happy,none of us need stress in our lives!
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