on Apr 19, 2009 @ 10:01 pm|
ok i broke up with my bf on saturday. and im in a tight situation. when i was with him there was another guy that likes me and he kissed me since then that kiss has been with me and it wasnt the guy that made me brake up with him. well i told the other guy that i broke up with him and now hes tellin me hes goin 2 brake up with him gf. would it be wrong if id hook up with the other guy?
|Wait. on May 10, 2009 @ 08:16 am|
I'd wait for him to actually follow through with breaking up with his girlfriend.First off, she has a right to know that he wants to be with someone else, instead of him sneaking around behind her back.
Secondly, there are too many guys who want everything. He might try to get away with having both girls for a while, and while telling you that he's 'going' to break up with her might reassure you, you'll end up feeling sad after a while because you can't have him to yourself. So you and his girlfriend don't deserve that.
That and cheating or being with someone who you know has a boyfriend/girlfriend is possibly one of the most awful things ever.
Wait for him to actually break up with his girlfriend and then go right ahead!
|What are you doing? on May 11, 2009 @ 10:20 am|
Sorry to be blunt but why are you are toying with multiple guys at once?
If you don't know what you want, be single for awhile and figure it out before you hurt anyone. Also, if someone has a girlfriend, he is not available. Leave that situation alone and limit yourself to single guys only. Preferably one at a time.
|What they said on May 11, 2009 @ 10:41 am|
I have to echo what the others have already said.
1. one at a time, girl
2. let him break up with his gf, then allow some extra time to make sure the breakup sticks before you get together. Also, you don't want to be a rebound fling. You will get hurt. It's pretty much guaranteed.
3. get over your own breakup first, unless it was a very short relationship and not very deep. You'll be doing yourself and your next bf a favor if you heal first before you jump into something new.
Is life short? Not that short. You can wait a few weeks/months for the dust to settle. Trust.