on Aug 03, 2010 @ 01:44 pm|
I know it's a weird title. anyways, i have been researching about female ejaculation. they say 75% go through their lives without ejaculating. I am the type that does cum, but ALOT, when i say a lot, take it literally., and im embarrassed by it. my long term boyfriend (who is the only ive slept with) always seems to be surprised. does anyone have that problem? and another thing, i cant cum when he's inside me, only if im doing it :( how cud i change that?
|normal on Aug 04, 2010 @ 05:50 am|
It is very normal to experience this, take into consideration that every woman is different though and some do experience orgasms that are more intense than other woman experience. I personally wouldn't be ashamed of it, I would embrace it knowing that this is the way my body reacts to being pleased. To answer your second question, I was reading not too long ago that a significant amount of women just can't achieve an orgasm through penetration, they need other stimulation to achieve it. You might want to consider some serious foreplay to get you aroused before you just jump into having sex. Take your time together, spend 30 min just in foreplay or however long it takes you to get aroused and feeling good so when you finally do have sex you might just be able to achieve your orgasm. Also remember if you're stressing and focusing on your orgasm or worried about not being able to orgasm, that can definitely kill your sex drive and keep you from achieving it. If all else fails, you might want to see someone who specializes in this and maybe they can help you and your boyfriend to get in tune with your bodies and help you both figure out ways to achieve orgasm. Hope this helps, Good luck!
|I want 2 feel an orgasm again. on Aug 06, 2010 @ 01:47 pm|
Hi I am Virtue,
My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4yrs now and Last month was the first time IN MY LIFE that i had ever had an Orgasm and it was incredible!! but i really want that feeling again?????????.....