Relationships > Finding the porn stash.
on Feb 13, 2007 @ 01:21 pm




Anonymous
Have any of you have ever seen the episode of That 70s Show when Donna finds Eric's playboy/porno magazine stash?

Well basic story: she finds the stash, gets really, really angry, and doesn't trust him. They get into a fight, well really it was more like she was just extremely angry... relationship goes over a ditch.
Any of you girls have this happen to you? If you did, how did you react? Now it is way more graphic than it was back in the 70s, with webcam girls and porn all over the internet.

And if any guy are reading this: if you don't mind please explain, why? (keep in mind you can respond anonymously as well - girls too!) Why is it that men need porn so much? Is the need to oggle at slutty girls on the net really that necessary just to unload yourselves? And how would you feel if you're girlfriend had tons of pcitures of naked men on her computer?

Ladies, would you be angry if you found porn sites and webcam girls on your man's website history? What would you do?
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issey
only cause for concern on Aug 25, 2009 @ 12:10 pm

I would be "alarm" if I find a stash of gay porn. Nothing against homosexuals, just doesn't quite work with my own agenda if my bf is in the closet.

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juicygirl
"any girls FOR porn? goodness. on Aug 26, 2009 @ 12:42 pm
Hey, good on ya for calling this one! I love the fact that my boyfriend and I can get it on after a little porn session. It's hot! I have enough confidence in myself to know I'm sexy enough for my man. We've been together 8 years and no, we're not swingers or cheaters. I don't mind getting a little dirty and being taked dirty to. I can dish it right back. I refuse to play second to a porn star, so I play it up and it's fun! Listen, if he were hiding gay or child porn from me, that might be a different story. But if he gets turned on by porn and it benefits me and I can play too? Hey, where do I sign up!
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misschickie
Interesting on Aug 26, 2009 @ 01:02 pm
I find it interesting that people who are for porn seem to be bothered by those who are against it.

Being against it doesn't mean you are not confident or that you don't have a healthy sex life, just like being for it doesn't mean you are a swinger or that you don't value yourself.

There are people who struggle with porn addiction and there are those who have had relationships ruined because of it. On the other hand, no one's life is ruined by not watching porn.

Ultimately every couple has their own code of conduct. In my case, porn will never have a place in my relationship (or a relationship with my husband ;) ).
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juicygirl
I might stir the pot here but... on Aug 26, 2009 @ 01:48 pm
Can I just be brutally honest here for a second? This is an intriguing thread. I'm sorry to those of you who have been hurt by an interference of porn in your lives. Really I am. I can read the pain it's caused you and how it beats down your confidence.
I wish there was some way that one could snap their fingers and take away the pain.
I hate to see my sisters suffer from the stupidity of men.

Maybe there should be a thread- like a "girl power" thread or something. We can all draw on eachothers' strength and become stronger women. In saying that, I'm stammering in my head... it's not that anyone is weak... but girls need their girls, y'know?

misschickie, I think I took your last comment too personally, sorry, I don't mean to. I generally come off too harsh at times and if it actually sounds like I'm bothered by those who are against porn, I'm not; to each their own.

It is liberating though, to not have your confidence shattered every time your man or any man screws up. It sure isn't a woman's fault. How do we spread that around...?
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Anonymous
^_^ on Nov 13, 2009 @ 07:19 pm
I can't really relate to the problem...me and my man have watched porn together and I don't really see it as a huge deal. I did get a little jealous when he was saying some of the things he did like about some of the women but we weren't together then...

It may sound weird but when he decided to stop watching porn for a while and he was on my computer watching some woman stretching on youtube...some yoga fitness thing, that made me livid....absolutely green with jealousy...
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