on Mar 17, 2009 @ 02:56 pm|
i dont get why guys or a certain guy will be calling and texting you one day and be wanting to see you and be all over you and then the next day its like if he never knew you! you dont hear a word from him...it just gets me super pist. any resons why u think they do this??? guess i need more from a guys opiion but not all of them will say the truth about why they do this either.
|Me Too!!?? on Mar 17, 2009 @ 03:25 pm|
I am going through the EXACT same thing right now!!! Texts and messages about my smile and how much he likes me one day and NOTHING the next... not even a reply to a "Good Morning" text!!!??? What is going on here! What kind of game are they playing at!! Because I DON'T WANT TO PLAY!!!
If you are not interested ... the grow a set and say so!! Don't string me along and pretend (badly, i might add) that everything is ok. I'm not stupid, nor will I turn into a homicidal maniac if you are not interested... but it is driving me crazy trying to figure out what is going on in your head! Give me a hint here!!! ARG!!!
|me three!! on Mar 17, 2009 @ 04:41 pm|
A guy friend of mine told me that there are two ways a guy will try to get a girl.
a) he will play the pathetic misunderstood guy- "My dad beat me, my mom left me, feel sorry for me because i need your pity" and make the girl feel sorry for them, etc.
b) he will lavish her with attention one week, and completely take himself away and ignore her the next, and this will make the girl come after him.
Anyways my new philosophy is this; if he seems like he's not into me, then he's just not that into me. Whether he's interrested or not is moot point, if he's acting not interrested, I'm not going to waste my time with him (even on a friendship level). If he really wants me as a friend or otherwise, he'll realize that himself, he'll see that I'm not coming after him, and he will grow a set...and come to me himself. That's if he is interrested. And if he doesn't come to me, then he just doesn't want to.
Can you ladies tell i watched "he's just not that into you" and it really had an impact?? :-)
|I've figured it out! on Mar 17, 2009 @ 05:28 pm|
I bought a book today... "Why Men Love Btiches"... mostly on the review and recommendation of MissChickie! :) I am on page 18 and I completely understand what happened to the guy i was "seeing"... I'm pretty sure it's over now, because I'm not a "bitch" i'm a "nice girl"... I know what i have to do in the future and it feels better knowing why this one didn't work out! (Although i really wish it had.. he was really nice!!).
|Agreed on Mar 17, 2009 @ 05:35 pm|
I agree with Becky.
|Patricia (Your name reminds me of the song Patricia the Stripper by Chris De Burgh lol) on Mar 17, 2009 @ 09:05 pm|
I too have that book and while I agree that it is good I also try to remember another important factor: Men are not wired to think like us....PERIOD!! We women over analyze too much and go off in all directions. We complicate things...a simple situation like "he didn't text me" can make us go bananas...do you really think that men care about something like that??? We need to learn to relax and look at the situation for what it is rather than what it could be etc. I have to admit that this is very hard to do but in the end it's one of the thing that is going to keep me from going crazy. I'm in somewhat of a similar situation as you and I'm trying to breath in and breath out without over analyzing anything....enjoy the moment and most of all...try to keep busy!!
Now back to the hockey game...GO HABS GO!!!!