on Aug 20, 2013 @ 01:58 pm|
I posted earlier in the year about being so super excited about the guy I was seeing and how he had a surprise Valentines day planned for us. Well, his mood switched just that fast and he became a complete nightmare. Who would have known? He was mean, condescending, and started seeing other females behind my back. I would ask him about it, because we were at the point of having unprotected sex and he would throw around theoretical answers like "if i was it would be because". We had one last falling out, after crying so much over him (like a dummy) i went to see him to spend some time and try to reconcile because I missed him. He totally set me up to be sexually assaulted by one of his friends, luckily it didnt go as far as it could have. I left crying, and for a long time he wouldn't talk to me and even denied he did anything wrong. He ended up moving to my city (where he only has been once, with me) even though he has no business here and knows nobody else but me. He texted me out the blue a few weeks ago telling me to come get my things, things I told him previously to just throw out. I ended up meeting him out anyway to get them, so he could just leave me alone. On the way back to work, i get a glimpse through the bag of something that didn't look right so I peek inside and he had another girls dirty underwear and bra in that bag with my stuff! I immediately pulled over and dumped everything..even my own stuff..in the trash. He was cheating on me with some nasty skank girl with some cheap looking lingerie, what an insult! I know it may be TMI, but the stuff stunk so bad i had to cry!
Ali de Bold
|Wow on Aug 20, 2013 @ 02:08 pm|
First of all, I hope you called the police about the assault. That is not the sort of thing anyone should ever ignore. If they did that to you, they'll do it to someone else.
You should never see or speak to this person again. This is not a quality man. Don't waste another second of your precious life crying or thinking about him.
I would also keep a mental note of the warning signs in his character so you can identify them quickly in the future and not date someone like that again. That is not how most men behave.
|I know on Aug 20, 2013 @ 04:32 pm|
Unfortunately, I was in a very (VERY) long abusive relationship before so when he showed me some real love at first it felt so good. I actually loved this guy, I have no idea what changed but I was crushed. I agree and I have no idea why I was obsessed with understanding WHY he treated me like that but I will never ever do that again.
|. on Aug 20, 2013 @ 06:39 pm|
Nobody should ever be subject to that kind of treatment! Stay far away from this guy, and definitely don't get suckered into speaking/seeing him. Good riddance I say
|wow! on Aug 22, 2013 @ 12:29 pm|
horrible..hope you're ok..stay away!!!
|DELETE on Aug 22, 2013 @ 12:37 pm|
Sometimes, I feel there are certain people that you just need to remove in every single way from your life. Just delete them and everything about them from your life. This guy is one of those people. Excise him from your brain and life!