on Sep 20, 2009 @ 11:47 pm|
me an this guy started talking,
everyday, he always wanted too see me, but could never remember too call on time.
so we hung out everyday for a month (except if busy), he told me he was fallin for me an i ment the world too him...we didnt have sex! he wanted too wait till we were ready, so we did...he intrudeced me too his family an friends, as i did too. it was going great the last time we hung out was monday the 14th..he said he would call tuesday at 3-4 he never called..its now sunday..an i still havent talked too him, i sent him one message an a call on wensday.. but gave up..what do i do!
|suspicious on Sep 21, 2009 @ 08:18 am|
It could be a situation where there's a genuine reason for the silence. He sounds like a decent guy - willing to wait on sex, introducing you to friends and family. I would be careful to not jump to conclusions.
HOWEVER, it's hard to imagine a scenario where he can't whip off a quick text to let you know he went on a last minute guys' trip to Vegas or is spending the week with his Amish grandma who confiscated his cell phone. If he contacts you again, make sure he explains himself properly!
What should you do? Absolutely nothing. You've left a message and tried to call. The ball is in his court, and if he doesn't respond very soon I would move on. I'm sure this must be so frustrating for you because it sounds like you really like him. But - you are worth a guy who will treat you right. If he calls you back in a couple of weeks, you should blow him off. It's disrespectful to expect you to wait around with no clue for weeks at a time. He has to deserve you, has to earn your respect and love. Anything less will never lead to any satisfactory long term relationship!
|mamaluv is right. on Nov 10, 2009 @ 11:19 am|
I think what mamaluv said is right. He may have a genuine reason, losing phone etc. and he sounds like a nice guy. Just wait - he will call! And if he doesn't, forget him, you're worth more.
|Don't call back on Nov 10, 2009 @ 02:40 pm|
I say wait for him to call you and if he never does I agree, just forget about him. You already tried calling so that should be good enough.
Good Luck! ;D