How can I get him to want me?

on Feb 23, 2012 @ 07:15 pm

Well there's this guy I like, and we're friends, but I'm sure he doesn't like me that way.  We have a lot of activities together, and therefore hang out together, but he doesn't like me as more than a friend.  What should I do?

14 Replies

:) on Feb 23, 2012 @ 09:32 pm

Have you asked him straight out what he thinks of you? Just keep doing what you're doing. You can't force people to love you. If he doesn't like you as more than friends, its not meant to be. Somewhere out there, there's someone for you girl! Keep your chin up. xo

Friends on Feb 24, 2012 @ 09:59 am

Start by being friends, friendship is always a good basis!

You might have a feeling that he doesn't like you anymore than just friends but you don't know for sure so keep being friends and see where it goes. Get to know each other and see where that leads.

you can't "get a guy to want you" on Feb 24, 2012 @ 11:48 am

Once again, I'm going to reference the greatest source of love advice on earth - Days of our Lives. It proves that you can play every game in the book, but nothing will make a guy like you. He either does or he doesn't.

If he does, it might not happen right away. If he does, he'll like you for YOU, not for the persona you project. If he likes your faked self, that relationship will come crashing down eventually, which is why I say don't find a way to make him like you.

By all means work on improving yourself but only for your own sake. Travel, try new things, be open-minded, but stay true to yourself, your morals and your convictions. You can change yourself only through growth, and that growth has to be for the right reasons (ie. what YOU need to do).

If he doesn't like you, then it's time to find a new crush. Unrequited love sucks, so it's best to move on. Who knows? Maybe seeing you with another guy might pique his interest and realize you're a catch! Then down the line if you are available again he might come a-knocking... if you're still interested.

:) on Feb 24, 2012 @ 12:45 pm

Don't stress yourself out over trying to get someone to like you. It's not up to you to try to make somebody like you. It's up to somebody to try to make -you- like -them- ;) lol. If he's not interested then he's not interesting (IMO).

Please! on Feb 29, 2012 @ 07:57 am

Well I think there's another girl who likes him, now I'm wondering if he likes her....
Also it'd be really hard to get over him, he's really a great guy.

Other girl... on Feb 29, 2012 @ 10:00 am

I wouldn't worry about the other girl in the picture right now. You can't be certain that she likes him or that he likes her. For now, continue to get to know each other, you never know where it might lead once you two become better friends! So, I also don't think you should write him off just yet. Once you guys are better friends, if you are certain that neither you nor he feel a spark then move on and find someone right for you!

tips on Mar 16, 2012 @ 05:52 pm

Can anyone give me tips on how to flirt with him or subtly find out if he likes me?

Vanderbilt27 on Mar 16, 2012 @ 09:13 pm

I don't know why you're stressing yourself out so much about this one
guy. I don't know how old you are, but life is to short to be worrying
about one guy some much. There's lots of guy's out there that will let
you know right away how they feel about you. Like a few of the other
ladies have already told you, you can't make a guy want you no matter
what you do. They either do, or they don't. I hate to see you wasting
some much of your time and energy on one guy and I know you're probably
feeling more stressed out about this each time you see him. Maybe you're
just trying to hard, give the guy some space for awhile and see if he
comes looking for you. After a bit when do see him again if he comes up
to and tells you he's missed you lately and is wondering where you've
bin, then that should give you some idea of how interested he is with
you. Other then that I'd say to just move on, some one new will come
into your life when you least expect him to. Good luck, and relax!!


Smell Tempting on May 06, 2012 @ 10:21 pm

Why don't you put on his favorite scent?


<3 on May 23, 2012 @ 04:56 pm

Honestly, don't "try" to make him like you! If he likes you, he likes you. If not, just be happy that you at least have him as a friend..

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