How many have you dated before finding the one?

on Feb 22, 2016 @ 01:47 pm

So i have been in a really great relationship for almost 6 years now, we have one child and have been engaged for almost four of these years; we are getting married in July this year finally! But before i met my boyfriend i was not the settling type. Yes i have had previous boyfriends but nothing was ever serious or maybe I wasn't the "girlfriend material" type who knows anyway I dated a lot but it was more for fun then to really settle. When i was 15 i met this guy I wanted to date so bad but he said no because i was to young, he actually told me to hit him up when i was 16 lol (which was a couple months away). So when i finally hit 16 i did just that, with me being young and uneducated i chased this same guy for four years. But while chasing this guy i had been seeing other guys as well which turns out they only wanted the one thing from me and again me being young and desperate to find the one i gave it to them hoping he would be it. When those guys went away i would turn back to the one i was chasing. This guy had used me for four years before i admitted to him that i loved him and honestly I did but when I told him he used it against me. Then i met my husband to be (in high school). I always thought he was cute but I was to shy to admit it we hung out with all the same friends everyone knew i liked him but him. Then i got my own apartment and he came over one day and we've been together ever since. Once i stopped looking he found me!

9 Replies

. on Feb 22, 2016 @ 01:54 pm

You sound like me! So happy you found the one:)

. on Feb 22, 2016 @ 02:25 pm

So glad to hear you are happy with your man :) Good luck planning for the wedding!

I had only dated two boys in high school before my current boyfriend who I have been with for 6 years. We started dating in 11th grade and have been together ever since.

. on Feb 22, 2016 @ 02:25 pm

I really only had one serious relationship before finding my mr. perfect haha
I did, however, have irresponsible teenage years, so... theres that aha

. on Feb 22, 2016 @ 03:12 pm

Ive been with my fiancé since I was 17 he was my only boyfriend and we've been together for almost 12 years and we have a little boy, so I've never dated lol.

Thanks on Feb 22, 2016 @ 03:15 pm

Thank you, it is definitely nice to have the one person you love most next to you each night!

Thank you all!! on Feb 22, 2016 @ 03:18 pm

I love seeing the replies with your story. Its amazing to see how many have had such luck with the same guy they fell for in high school. I met him in high school but didn't date him until i graduated.

:) on Feb 22, 2016 @ 03:41 pm

Such a lovely story. Congrats with everything :)

Sandra Ribeiro
Feb 22 on Feb 22, 2016 @ 06:18 pm


. on Feb 22, 2016 @ 06:42 pm

Congratulations! Have a great wedding!

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