Ali de Bold
|Spend time together on May 25, 2007 @ 07:34 pm|
Sex at a young age is a very,very bad idea. Even if that is what he says he wants you should not give it to him. If he really cares about you, he will be content to spend time with you without taking it to that level.
Your earlier post mentioned you had been interested in a 13 year old boy, so I can only assume you are around the same age. If so, you definitely shouldn't be having sex. Boys at that age are just too immature and will only take advantage of you if you let him have that. It's great that you are looking for other ways to show him you care rather than becoming sexually active.
If you are in the 13-15 year old age range, you should stick to going out as a group with friends and spend time together doing fun stuff. Even if you feel ready to commit, boys at that age are not so you need to avoid any situation where he is trying to pressure you into sex.
If he does or you think he won't stay with you if you don't, then you know forsure he was only ever interested in you because he wanted to get some and you shouldn't give him the time of day.