on Apr 03, 2009 @ 05:53 pm|
this guy was very nice with me. We flirted a little when we meet. We are from different states. We only met twice. We kissed the first time and we had sex at the second time we met. We enjoy talking to each other but he told me that he is not ready for a relationship. I was there on the phone like crap. We had wonderful time together, but he just wannha be fritend. How to imake a guy like you. i just feel worthless. uwhat is wrong with me. Im a nice girl.give me some trick. We keep in touch online, but how to take his heart?its complicated online also.
|Run run run! on Apr 03, 2009 @ 10:14 pm|
Honey, I get that you have feelings for him but this is going nowhere. Cut him loose before you invest any more of your heart in him. And by cut him loose, that also means no online hanky panky.
It's a vicious cycle; you give him what he wants, he dines and dashes, you feel like crap because of it, so you give in to the next guy who asks because you want to feel loved and valued. And so it goes on and on.
You do not need this kind of jerk in your life. Love yourself and demand respect from men - and then you will find your happiness.
Sorry if this seems brutal, but it's true.
|nice girls don't always come out on top on Apr 04, 2009 @ 03:13 am|
I agree with mamaluv - leave before you invest more of your time and your heart into this relationship thats going nowhere. leave before you get hurt even more by someone who doesn't realize your value.
I also want to add, watch the movie "Hes just not that into you", and read the book "Why men marry bitches" - these will really help you put into prespective whats going on, and give you a better idea on how to not allow yourself to be caught in this situation again.