on Feb 09, 2011 @ 06:29 pm|
Ok so i have always loved guys. Always been atracted to them. I have had a boyfriend for 2 years now. I love him very much. Now ever since school basketball started i have gotten to be better friends with all of my team. One night i had a dream about a girl on my team and i kissing. It was weird but ever since then i have felt really atracted to her. Everytime I see her all I want to do is kiss her. Its so weird. I have never even thought about girls like this before. When i try to think of other girls like this i think its disgusting. So its just her. She also has a boyfriend but i think there adorable together and i really do want them to be together. I just have some weird feeling for her. I dont get what it is. Plz help im so confused.
|plz on Feb 09, 2011 @ 09:17 pm|
plz someone respond
Ali de Bold
|Don't worry on Feb 10, 2011 @ 11:10 am|
Sorry no one has responded yet, Anonymous. For some reason I don't think any of us at the office noticed this thread until now.
I wouldn't read too much into a dream. I'm not a psychologist but dreams are strange things and they can really mess with your head for a bit.
Could it be that you are attracted to certain aspects of her personality? Things you admire about her that you wish you could be like?
I have had several vivid dreams about ex-boyfriends (who were beasts that I'd never want to meet again on the street much less make out with) and woken up feeling freaked out. And I am married to an awesome man.
If you still feel this way after more time has passed, you could consider talking to someone professional to work it out. At least that could help sort out your feelings.
For now, don't stress about it. Regardless of the outcome, everything is going to be ok :).
|I've had strang dreams too on Feb 10, 2011 @ 11:50 am|
I agree with Ali, these are new feelings so waiting a bit to see if they get stronger or go away could be a great idea. The most important thing to remember is you haven't done, or thought or felt anything wrong.
|Agree with above on Feb 10, 2011 @ 02:35 pm|
I don't think you should stress too much about it. Dreams can mean so many different things, and more often than not they usually don't mean anything literal.
So I don't think you should read too much into the dream. I often find that when i go to bed thinking about something/someone, I may end up dreaming about that thing/person in some warped scenario only my subconscious could make up!
Here's what I think is happening: You had the dream, woke up feeling weird about it, started to question why it happened, now you are so weirded out you're convincing yourself you are attracted to her. Do you think that's what could be happening here?
Like Ali said, maybe there's something about her that you admire that you are mixing up respect/admiration with other feelings.