on Aug 03, 2009 @ 11:05 am|
its veery big prob ...
her parents knows about me, and they treat her like shit, no mob no laptop, no out goin , no anythin
she want to make her parents happy and she wanna stay with me at the same time and she cant do that ....
and now she wanna leave me cuz she wanna make her parents feel better, cuz she know its the only way
but i know that she loves me , but she dont wanna loose her parents
i loved her, and i love her and ill always love her ....
i was thinkin about ill just give her some time to deal with her parents and ill talk to her best freind and let she be the messenger between both of us untill her parents gets calm ..
ill be be more realistic ....
nd ill tell her that whenever she wana talk or need anything i would be there for her ,,i know it hurts that i cannt see her or talk with her now but its temprory till things calm down with her family
so ill be patient and just make sure that she knows that i love her and she loves me back and i would be there for her when she needs meeee .......
i told her that and she said that we have to end everythin, and she SAID I DONT LOVE YOU ANYMORE !!!!!!!!!!!
but the problem is i knew that she loves me, but thats what happened and i hope if sumbody will help me ..plzzzzzzzzzzzzz i love her soooooooo muchhhhh :-(((
|keep lines open on Aug 03, 2009 @ 01:24 pm|
Feel for you Viper . Maybe talking to her Best Friend is a good idea. That person can relay msgs. to her for you. Do NOT crowd or smother her . It will turn her off . Her parents will be on her case and you will be all over her too . NOT GOOD. Just let her know you have major feelings for her and that you will wait for her !!! If you love her - set her free - if she comes back to you - she's yours . If she doesn't - she likely cannot get away from the barriers her folks have put up . Good luck .
|must be patient on Aug 04, 2009 @ 09:00 pm|
As you said Viper , you have to be calm and patient . If you come off as a crazy stalker dude -you will never get this girl . Her parents are Super important to her so stay cool and don't lose your head over it. If you are all desperate - i agree with legz99- you will push her away . Take care .
|calm down on Aug 04, 2009 @ 10:17 pm|
Go back, look at what you wrote and think about how you want to present yourself.
You are making yourself look desperate. People usually run away when someone is chasing them. The other girls have given great advice and I suggest you take it.
On a side note, you may want to consider some grammar and spelling help before you write or text her anything. Or before you apply for a job or send an email. It's a bit childish and I'm sure you can do better. Chin up!