on Jun 27, 2013 @ 04:26 am|
there's this guy im crushing for more than a year... we shared several classes before. im not sure if he got eyes on me too. Dont judge me for being assuming but he shows sign! well, im not even sure if it's really signs or it is just him being sweet. we dont talk that much cause (in my case) i dont feel comfortable talking to him especially with eye contacts. my locker is just 4 lockers away from him.and when he see me at the hall way, he always tease me, do silly things... but whenever we are somewhere else... he doesn't do that. i know it's weird. well, the signs he shows... he always wanna help me even with the smallest thing... he always wanna seat next to me... theres also this one time that we tried to pick a piece of crumple paper in the table at the same time, ending... i got the paper and in my hand and he has mine on his. then we looked at each other and he let go of my hand. i know this topic is really childish but i really dont know what to do. we even tweet about each other indirectly, like im not literally tagging him on my tweet but its all about him. he is like a roller coaster, sometimes he shows sign that he likes me back, sometimes he does not. what really drives me nuts was our tweet last night. twas like this.
i tweeted this without tagging him
"congratulations graduates! Goodbye crush :( didnt even had the chance to tell you.. oh, i actually had a chance but i dont have the guts."
2 minutes later, i saw his tweet on my feed. not literally tagged to me but im assuming its a reply from my tweet.
"it's not too late! feel free to express anything and have no regret"
i tweeted again.
"too bad, he graduated early. #ifonlywecanshareanotheryear"
i refreshed my browser and saw his tweet once more.
"no worries, goin back next year for that girl in her cheer uniform"
I ALMOST DIED! i'm a friggin cheerleader! can someone tell me im not just assuming but this guy is really into me?
it drives me crazy. what does his first tweet meant? does he want me to do the first move and tell me what i really feel? isn't it awkward?
|Go for it girl! on Jun 27, 2013 @ 10:09 am|
Those seem like some pretty clear signs to me!
Unless you know another cheerleader who was tweeting the same things as you, I'm pretty sure he's talking about you :)
Can't hurt to ask, right? Maybe he's just as shy as you about this, and especially if you haven't be able to go right up to him and tell him how you feel, he might be thinking the same thing you are...the whole "does she or doesn't she?" dance.
So send him a direct message somehow (if you don't have a chance to see him in person) and just ask him to hang out, or if you know a party that's happening soon ask if he'd like to go with you (something social like a party is a great way to go out with someone you like, especially if you're both shy, because it really takes the pressure off!)
Best of luck & let us know how it turns out!
|DO IT on Jul 11, 2013 @ 01:09 pm|
Why all these secretive, unclear twitter games?! Go for it.
I'm going to assume that the tweets were meant for you and I do think there's something there but regardless of all that, just go for it. You won't regret it. What's the worst that could happen? And what's the best that could happen? Doesn't the best outweigh the worst?
Ali de Bold
|Go for it on Jul 16, 2013 @ 12:42 pm|
It sounds like you are both waiting for the other person to make the move. You can either say something to him or wonder, what if? Guys are shy too!
|Thats a big 10-4 on Jul 19, 2013 @ 01:09 pm|
...DO IT! :D
That seems like pretty clear messages to me :)
|oooooooooooooooh on Jul 23, 2013 @ 10:49 pm|
good luck!!! ;)
|just an update on Jul 24, 2013 @ 09:38 am|
i haven't told him YET.
im so nervous and i dont even know how to start a conversation about feelings.
well, as of now.... we're getting to know each other.
chatting and texting...still FRIEND-zoning. :))
|Take it slow on Jul 24, 2013 @ 10:14 am|
Don't over think it, that could take a wrong toll. Just go with the flow, take baby steps and enjoy each others company. Don't change what you're doing now or how you are just because you know he has feelings for you. I think the conversation will spark when you have a gut-feeling the moment is right or who knows maybe he'll make the first move... even if this 'talk' doesn't happen, you have nothing to lose. The best kinds of relationships start off as being great friends anyway.