Just Booty call or could be something more?


Anonymous
on Dec 31, 2011 @ 11:53 am


I recentley met this guy who has a girl friend but says he is unhappy, he said he isn't sexually happy but some what emotionally happy with her. Well I know this is going to sounds bad but we have been talking for about 2 months, and after the first month we started to have sex, its not normal sex its slow maybe it just how he likes it who knows, anyways he calls me beautiful, and says sweet things to me he sends me pictures of him smileing. But If I was just a booty/friendship he wouldn't be calling be beautiful  or any of the above right? So what you think could he be into me or just a booty call?
 

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so_adorkable_
guys on Jan 01, 2012 @ 03:19 am

in my opinion, I don't think that the person who has the girlfriend/boyfriend in this kind of situation could ever really be serious enough with the "other" person. If you feel like there's something wrong then more then likely there is. And if it makes you uncomfortable then think about that as well. Also just try to imagine how you'd feel in his girls position. I don't want to make you feel bad or anything. I just don't think he's committed to either of you and is probably having the best of both worlds.
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takoda
You can do better on Jan 01, 2012 @ 09:17 am

then him!! Just think if he can do this to his real girlfriend, whats he going to do with you. It sounds to me like he just wants his cake and you on the side. You don't really want to be the other woman do you? It sound like a train rake waiting to happen to me. Some men can be real pigs and telling you these things and doing these things with you behind his real girlfriends back makes him sound like a real pig to me. If I were you I'd cut him off and never talk to him again. There are a lot more guy's out there that would treat you right and only you! Think of yourself and your happiness down the road.
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Bren
Agree with the ladies on Jan 01, 2012 @ 08:44 pm

This guy is playing you and the other girl.Hes going to say anything nice to you and the other girl so that he can keep the both of you.You really dont want to be in a relationship were you have to share your man.Its difficult if you have strong feelings for him but be strong give him the boot and find a nice guy who will only want YOU.You will thank yourself in the end for making that decision.
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Gabriel
Dude perspective on Jan 03, 2012 @ 08:32 am

Alright, i've read what you wrote like 3 times. . . But everytime i read it, it sounds as if you're the "Other Chick"... Maybe even a friend with benefits.. Hmm anyways what i do know about being a guy is that we will try to eat the cake and still save it. He's going to try and have you & her, do you want to be put in a situation like that?? Plus im sure there's more guys just like him who are single. Of you try to be his girl on the side, imagine how his girlfriend will feel. I just think it's a bad idea.

- Mr. Pro Tips
Gabriel.
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AlexJC
Hmmmm..... on Jan 03, 2012 @ 10:15 am

Do you guys go out, do things in public, talk on a regular basis? And when (what time) does he talk to you?

If your relationship seems to be centred solely around getting together for sex and you don't get together to go out for non physical activities and he seems to be only calling you later at night, then I think this is a booty call situation. This doesn't mean he doesn't like you as a person, but I think his mind is on the sex, not any sort of relationship. If he was serious, he would have dumped the other girl.

I think you need to figure out what you want and what you are happy with. Don't stay around with him if he isn't giving you want you want, move on to better things!
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mamaluv
Booty call on Jan 03, 2012 @ 10:21 am

Girlfriend, I hate to be blunt but this seems like all sorts of bad news. If he wanted to be with you, he'd be with you. If he was done with his girlfriend, he'd break things off with her. He may well have feelings for you both that are genuine to some degree, but right now you are The Other Woman. Out of respect for yourself, you should get out of this relationship right now. You should do it out of respect for the girlfriend too - we sisters need to stick together. You owe this player absolutely nothing, as he has disrespected you both by playing both sides of the fence. HE is at most to blame here as HE is the one who's cheating.

Sorry if that sounds harsh, but from the side, that's really how this looks :/
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Patricia
Been there... on Jan 03, 2012 @ 07:53 pm

Sorry to tell you, it's just a booty call. I've been there, I know. It sucks, I know. It sucks a little less when you KNOW it's just a booty call... but you deserve more! I deserved more and I went out and found it. Now I am with someone who loves me and we are committed to eachother. It's much better this way!!
Good luck!
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Anonymous
Booty calls... on Jan 04, 2012 @ 11:04 am

If he was serious about you then he wouldn't be going behind his girlfriends back just to sleep with you. Any guy who wants some booty will say anything to get you in bed. Being sweet means nothing when he (A) has a girlfriend and (B) doesn't want to be in a commited relationship with you. This guy is getting the best of both worlds. You and his girlfriend both deserve better.

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Ali de Bold
The Other Woman on Jan 06, 2012 @ 10:01 am

I completely agree with what Gabriel said. You are the other woman, the booty call, the hookup.

Don't waste your time on this guy. Paying you compliments means nothing. Saying he isn't satisfied sexually means nothing. He is a cheater. He is saying and doing what cheaters do.

Dust yourself off and move on from this one. These situations never end well.
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Anonymous
Thanks! on Jan 09, 2012 @ 08:37 am


You are totally right thank you so much. I really needed it in a diffretn perspective. If hes going to do this to his girlfriend its not going to stop him from doing it to me. :) I really need to find the good guy, instead of the bad boys. Why are we attracted most to the bad ones?
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