OMG Porn Again?


Anonymous
on Oct 15, 2015 @ 09:30 pm

Does your man watch this a lot? I know it's a touchy subject for some. My question I guess is....why does he have to watch it? Is it because his sex life has become mundane? Could be any number of reasons, but I think it can lead to a serious problem in a relationship.For me, it's as bad as cheating
 

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ashleyesgaio
I agree on Oct 15, 2015 @ 10:35 pm

I totally agree, since me and my man have been together, he hasn't watched porn (trust me i know former, i'm crazy lmao).
I've asked him this question and he says that it's because when we are not around they need something to help them out. Maybe if they have photos or videos to watch of the two of you, he may stop watching it ?
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Barbiebelt
Porn on Oct 16, 2015 @ 01:42 am

Can I ask, how old are you? I know..you think this has nothing to do with the problem...and I'll have a ten page answer later, but first, tell me how old are you and how long have y'all been married?
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Anonymous
porn on Oct 16, 2015 @ 02:33 am

Doesn't matter how old one is or how long they've been together.If the woman takes care of herself and looks great, is explorative in bed, and the list goes on; porn is not needed Only MY opinion Barbiebelt No offence
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Barbiebelt
Porn on Oct 16, 2015 @ 03:43 am

I 100% agree.....but when I was much younger I would freak out about it....now, I know men jerk off no matter how well their woman treats them and they look at porn! we can't let it bother us....they are men and most of them are pigs! I learned a long time ago honesty is much better than them lying about it...I don't like porn either, but if hubby watches it...oh well he watches it....we can't stop them, so why worry or fight about it they are either gonna watch or not!
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martac
. on Oct 16, 2015 @ 07:03 am

I say men will be men. I don't take it personally. It's just a part of
being a guy. I would laugh it off unless it's constant than I would say
something to him and tell him it's bothering you
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crystaljam
Meh on Oct 16, 2015 @ 10:36 am

It doesn't bother me - sometimes we watch it together if we're getting in the mood as well.

If someone was watching it for hours on end, I'd be concerned, but to help with the visual aspect of sexuality, I'm ok with it.

I even had tapes (not my own) when I was younger.

I don't understand the faux pas against it.

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jcb75
Nope on Oct 16, 2015 @ 11:44 am

I'm with martac and crystaljam, it's really not a big deal.

But saying that a woman needs to always dress up and be explorative in the bedroom is a form of victim shaming to me. If a dude gets off by watching other people bump naughty bits, it is NOT his partner's "fault"
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Sandra Ribeiro
Not a big deal on Oct 16, 2015 @ 12:12 pm

I watch it with my fiancee1 Not an issue
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MayaLopez
Nope on Oct 16, 2015 @ 12:41 pm

I know he watches it when I am not around, I watch it when he is not around, its all good :)
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Anonymous
jcb on Oct 16, 2015 @ 12:46 pm

Whoa pretty cheeky today; good for you. I think a woman that tries new things and lets her man know what she wants has nothing at all to do with victim No offence
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