on Nov 25, 2012 @ 12:44 pm|
So, I met this guy at a college fair last Wednesday (the day before Thanksgiving). He recently signed a letter of intent with a university I'm really interested in (he's a senior, I'm a junior, if that matters), and we REALLY hit it off. We exchanged numbers and we talked for four hours that night! Our conversation was great, and he kept flirting with me but I didn't want to seem too eager so I only flirted back a little lol :) But anyway! So the way our conversation ended was like this:
Me: Well, have a good night! Text me another time? :)
Him: Yeah!! (: I will! Goodnight!
It's Sunday now (so it's been 4 days), and I haven't heard from him. I know he was probably busy with Thanksgiving & baseball, etc. I really don't want to text him first, I want him to text me. Lol. How long should I wait to hear from him before I just forget about it?
Thank you! x
|well.. on Nov 25, 2012 @ 03:37 pm|
depends how much you really like him! It seems like you guys hit it off, and if he was being really flirty in your first conversation and you were acting a little more reserved maybe he thinks you're not as into it as he is. so he's probably waiting for you to text him!
just shoot him a 'hey, how was your thanksgiving?' msg and i'm sure things will take off. don't worry about all that traditional 'he has to make the first contact' stuff, don't be afraid to go for what you want.
hope it works out!
|Text Him! on Nov 26, 2012 @ 02:49 pm|
I don't think you need to wait for him to text you. If you guy connected, I am sure he would love to hear from you and texting him tells him that you're interested and sends a clear signal. I think he'll appreciate it! Send him a quick - Hey, how's it going? Or like @lissag said, ask him how his thanksgiving went. There's no real downside to doing it!
|Why on Nov 28, 2012 @ 07:01 am|
not? I think he will be glad to hear from you! You guys are just at the beginning, so there are no rules actually))
|Well that was a bust! on Nov 28, 2012 @ 07:13 am|
When we first talked, he said he didn't have a girlfriend. It turns out he does, & she called me yesterday in a fury! Oh goodness. Thanks anyway, girls! <3
|Wooooww on Nov 28, 2012 @ 11:22 am|
What a jerk! Well that explains why he took so long to get back to you. Good riddance to him!
Ali de Bold
|That's horrible on Nov 28, 2012 @ 11:51 am|
Shame on him. Glad you found out quickly, though!
|Guys!!! on Jan 23, 2013 @ 09:50 pm|
Yeah that has happen to me too... Its sucks because you get so excited for nothing..