|Well it is really broken up usually on Jun 25, 2008 @ 11:02 pm|
Whenever the couple "get back" together, they are just not comfortable with changing the routine. Once someone in the relationship changed the feelings, the feeling toward the person is changed. "getting back" together is just prolonging the pain and wasting each other's time.
|well on Jun 26, 2008 @ 04:04 pm|
isnt that the tough part of breaking up?that crazy desire to go back to the person?u need to resist,both of you,or come to a conclusion about whats gonna happen.yes it always feels great to get back with that special person but at the end of the day you dont really wanna feel like you are being tagged along do u?
so to answer your question,i would IMAGINE it sucks,but ive never really gone back to an ex on more than one ocassion...if you are breaking up all the time,then there is a reason for that and you need to look at it and discuss whats gonna happen about it.
anyway,don't know if i put you to sleep there:)
x x x
|Speaking as someone who's been there... on Jul 01, 2008 @ 01:21 am|
Yeah, I did hate it. I think he and I broke up three times before we finally broke up for good. For me, I always took him back because I felt a tremendous amount of guilt. It was hard to be the one causing someone pain. But deep down, I knew I wasn't doing myself or him any favours getting back together when my heart wasn't in it any longer. It was hard to stick to my guns the last time... there was a lot of tears and a lot of weak moments where I wanted to say "screw it". But now, six years later, I'm very happy I was strong enough to follow through. I actually regret not having been stronger the first time around and sticking with him a full 1.5 years longer than I should have.
I hope everything works out for you. Just remember there's a reason why you broke up in the first place. If that hasn't changed, why get back together? What will be different the second, third or fourth time around? Probably not much if anything at all. G'luck.