on Jan 19, 2010 @ 04:01 pm|
So i have dated a guy for four year we have broken up about a year ago. he has broken up with me for another girl that he is still with. is it bad that i still have feelings for him? is there any chance our relationship could work still? what should i do?
I NEED ADVICE
|No on Jan 19, 2010 @ 04:47 pm|
Although easier said than done. Its completely pointless to dream of what could be. You guys have history and nothing will ever change that but its obvious your not his center of attention at the moment so he definitely doesn't deserve to be yours. If it just so happens to work out in the future than its clearly meant to be but for now you deserve your chance of finding something else better.
|Focus on something else on Jan 19, 2010 @ 05:19 pm|
I agree with happywifehappylife, it won't do you any good to dwell on what could have been if it's over, and if he's been with someone else for a year, it's clearly over. Regardless, it sounds like he hurt you pretty badly when you broke up - would you even want to get back together with him knowing he's capable of doing it again?
Sadly, I think those feelings of hope for what could have been don't really go away till you meet someone else. But when you do meet that someone, you will realize how wrong the man in question was for you.
Be patient, and enjoy your time being single! Do something for yourself. Learn a new sport, activity or hobby. Join a volunteer group. Meet new people. Be open to new opportunities. You'll end up finding someone when you least expect it!