on Apr 16, 2008 @ 02:02 pm|
my boyfriend is looking into going to thailand for a holiday...im not too happy.people have made me feel so insecure about this when i in fact trust my boyfriend.his friends mom told me "that's no place for a guy 2 go without his wife or girlfriend" and other people told me the girls are really sleazy and go for any foreigner because they want to get out of their own country...am i overreacting??
|mmm... on Apr 16, 2008 @ 02:10 pm|
I have no clue. Personally, if i am dating someone already, then it is least likely i would cheat. You should try call him and say love you more often when he is there.
That will remind him what he has and don't blow it.
But those ladyboy in Thai is very pretty. I really like Nong Poy, a ladyboy. She is really pretty.
|ladyboy on Apr 16, 2008 @ 04:15 pm|
u mean they are men hey?i heard that but u never know until you see it:)
|confused on Apr 16, 2008 @ 04:20 pm|
ladyboy = cross-dressing children? I've never heard this term before.
|Don't let others get you down! on Apr 16, 2008 @ 05:01 pm|
If you trust him, don't let other people get you down! Chances are you know him pretty well, and they're basing their opinion on stories of the Country. It's not fair to just assume he's going to cheat because of where he'll be. Not all guys are the same, give him the benefit of the doubt.
It really comes down to how faithful he is. If he's going to cheat on you, I don't think the country he's in will make a difference. Whether he's in Thailand, Austrailia or the UK. In the end it comes down to how faithful he is . If you can trust him (as you mentioned you can), I wouldn't worry. Trust me...there are sleazy girls all over the globe, a specific country isn't going to be a factor in whether he cheats or not.
|country does matter on Apr 16, 2008 @ 05:39 pm|
I hate to say this, but the country does matter more than you may think. There are certain cultures that train their women to seduce men so they can marry them and leave thier bad situation and come to the United State or Canada. Russia is an example of this. Not saying this applies to every woman living in those countries just that it is more likely to happen than in North America where we are all lucky and for th most part happy to stay put.
My friend's Dad went to Moscow last year with his wife. He's in his late 60s and happily married. He was sitting at the hotel bar one evening with his wife, when this stunning women in her 20s walked up to him and offered to give him a massage (if you know what I mean). He told her he was not interested as he is married. She said "Wife can watch". My friend's Dad said there were a lot of these women around, propositioning hotel patrons and this was commonplace ther. I know other who were seduced and married women from other countries and left their families for them. It does happen.
I am not saying that the man can't control himself. He can and he should. It's just that the temptations will be greater in other countries where people are desperate to get a green card and go to great lengths to learn how to seduce men. If you have a strong relationship and you know in your heart of hearts he is committed it will probably be fine. But everyone has their weaknesses and some know how to exploit them better than others.
|agree with anonmymous on Apr 16, 2008 @ 05:57 pm|
You know everyone have that physical needs regularly.
He knows what he shouldn't do, but he is going to need that reminder.
Just make sure you can hit his phone while he is there and you will be fine.
As for Nong Poy, I think she has surgery done already. But lots of ladyboy haven't got the surgery done yet.
Here is a video with Nong Poy, she is the one in blue dress. She is so pretty!!!!
|Not saying it doesn't happen... on Apr 16, 2008 @ 06:29 pm|
Oh I agree that woman in certain Countries will try harder, but I don't think it's fair to assume that because of the type of women in a specific country a man will definetly cheat (as the original posters friends/family are making out to happen). Granted some men do, but I don't think it's fair to assume that ALL men will. If his feelings towards you are strong, and he is faithful, no matter how hard she tries, he shouldn't wander. If he does, then he obviously is not as committed as he should be.
Really, I don't think it's completely the women in these countries faults. Sure what they're doing isn't right, but in the end, it comes down to the decision the man makes. Some guy can try his hardest to seduce me, offer me sex or whatever, but I'm in a committed relationship, I'm not going to give in.
|rumours on Apr 16, 2008 @ 10:21 pm|
when I was in England I met a woman who went to Thailand and got into relationship with a Thai man. They eventually went to England and got married, and he immediately left her - it's not just the women who want out of Thailand I guess
But my aunt and uncle went on vacation there recently and neither of them were seduced
|Je Survivrai on May 04, 2008 @ 07:27 pm|
Yes you are over reacting. Thailand is a middle-income country. People are extremely polite and respectful. Keep in mind that if you are sleazy, anywhere you go, you will attract trash.
I aint from Siam. But I love eet!