to early?

on Apr 06, 2009 @ 06:18 pm

When is it ok to get in a serious relationship? I'm asking this because im only in grade 9 i have been dating my current bf since sept.16 (basically the beginning of the school year) and i have met him that school year. He is like my bestest friend in a way and he always stood by me. And im sorry to say I'm in LOVE!!!! it sucks soo much, I reealy dont wanna get hurt.

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Not in highschool on Apr 07, 2009 @ 03:48 pm

It's great that he's your bestfriend, but I don't think high school is the time to be in a serious relationship, or even know what it's like to be in love. Focus on friends, school, and fun. It's okay to date during highschool but most highschool boys aren't mature enough for a serious relationship.

have fun and be smart on Apr 08, 2009 @ 11:39 am

I had 2 fairly serious boy friends in HS. One lasted 1 year. The other lasted 2 years. I don't think there's anything wrong w/ dating in HS. Just have fun and be smart. Looking back on those relationships, now knowing what love truly is, those 2 boyfriends were my best friends. No question. Was it love? Probably more lust.

Just be sure not to lose yourself. Stay connected w/ your other friends. Get active in your school, whether its sports or band, or drama, etc ... Don't let your life be defined by you boyfriend.

Ali de Bold
Spot - on ;) on Apr 08, 2009 @ 12:41 pm

Hee, pardon the pun. I couldn't resist. I totally agree with Spotty.

yup she's hit the spot ! ;-) on Apr 11, 2009 @ 01:26 am

completely agree with her too... its very easy to get carried away in relationships when in HS - at that age we're simply too young to know any better or keep things in prespective. Don't focus your life around your bf. Don't miss out on the highschool experience just 'cuz you got a boy.

High School is honestly the best years.... the freedom of being a student,minus the seriousness that comes with College/University life. You only get this once, so don't miss out.

Have fun! :-)


.... on Apr 11, 2009 @ 01:28 am

ps. sorry MC's spot on got me thinking spotty jokes hense my title on the previous post :) :) but anyways i totally agree with her


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