on Apr 02, 2009 @ 09:32 am|
Hi, I have just found some texts from a woman on my partners phone, so I have taken the number and have started flirting with her to find out what kind of person she is. She has asked me what her fantasy is and I am not sure what to write. Please can anyone give me some ideas.
|huh... on Apr 02, 2009 @ 01:47 pm|
Off topic, but you might end up opening a can of worms doing this. If your partner ever finds out you went into his text messages, got this number and flirted with this girl all the while pretending to be him (sorry, i'm assuming that's what you're doing)...this might create trust issues and put a strain on your relationship.
Did she ask what her fantasy was (as in she told you (your partner?) already and wants to see if you remember), or did she ask what your fantasy is?
If she asked you what her fantasy is - thats a bit worrying, because what sort of conversations did she and your partner have that he would know her fantasies?
If she is asking what your fantasy is - a woman knowing the person she's flirting with is in a relationship continues to flirt with him and asks about his fantasies - that should tell you right there what sort of a person she is.
If I were you i'd be questioning what such a woman was doing texting my partner in the first place!
As far as fantasy....hmm i gotta think about that one... i'm sure the other chicks will have a good answer :)
Ali de Bold
|Ideas on Apr 02, 2009 @ 05:33 pm|
Put the phone down and ask your partner for the truth about those texts.
|Good one on Apr 02, 2009 @ 09:17 pm|
I agree with Misschickie...put an end to the secrecy and be up front with your partner and ask the question.
|Messed up on Apr 03, 2009 @ 11:52 pm|
The fact that you'd even go through his phone is bad enough let alone everything else. How insecure are you that you can't let him have his own privacy?
|... on Apr 04, 2009 @ 11:35 am|
^Yes she should not have gone through his phone...but you don't know
the situation and maybe he was giving off signs of dishonesty and she
suspected that he was having an affair. Under extreme circumstances a
lady has got to do what a lady has got to do. Obviously from what this
lady wrote it has given the OP some concern.
Krusty, you should stop the flirting with her right away...don't stoop to that level. Just confront your partner and remember to be strong, don't
let him weasel his way out of it. His "text fantasy" behavior was/is
|Hard to say on Apr 05, 2009 @ 11:27 pm|
It's difficult to say what their relationship was like in the first place anyway. Even if there was an attraction there they could've just been friends and nothing more. If the poster is flirting as a her guy then that's giving her the green light to flirt back. The person on the phone probably only asked the fantasy question in response to what the poster has already propagated.
I agree to just talk to your guy about it and stop acting in such an immature manner.
If I was dating someone and did what the poster did, cheating or not cheating, I would break up with that person. I would not tolerate someone going through my private things and impersonating me.