on May 19, 2009 @ 02:02 pm|
Well schools nearly over :| and proms coming up, which i still need to buy a dress for.
And lifes going pretty well atm but recently a few lads have started talking an interest to me, which is goood. but who do i choose, they are all friends with eachother and there is one i like more than the others but i would feel soo bad if i got with him, for the sake of his mates. also my friend likes the lad i like, which also puts me in a very difficult position, do i just go for it or think about other people and their feelings if i did get with him? x
|i would just on May 19, 2009 @ 07:27 pm|
dont go to prom and just sit miserably in your room and eat until you hate yourself. hope this helps!
Ali de Bold
|Lucky Girl! on May 19, 2009 @ 08:39 pm|
Multiple choices for prom is kind of a nice problem to have, no?
However, you and your friend liking the same guy is a problem. Talk to her, tell her you both like each other and that you want to go with him, and see what she says. You don't always need to sacrifice your happiness, but it's great that you are so thoughtful. Let us know how it turns out!
|oh boy.. on May 27, 2009 @ 12:15 pm|
Okay so this may seem really bad of me to say, but doesn't this seem like a movie type scenario? And honestly, that's exactly how I'd think about it when trying to find the solution to the problem.
None of them have actually ASKed yet, correct? So, you have some time the think out your options. Seriously think about who you'd have the most fun and chill time with, you really don't want to have anything else to stress about at prom. You want to like.. laugh and joke around and be able to make a complete fool of yourself (because it may just happen) with that person.
I agree with misschickie too, you need to talk with your friend. Feel it out, see how strongly her feelings are, if she's like in love with him, I think you should just step back and tell her "You know what, I like him too but I think you should go with him". If he asks you though, I'm sure your friend will do the same for you, you know? .. (in theory, :S). The last thing you want to do in your final days of high school is loose a friend. That's how my prom went, slightly different situation though, she ask him out just for kicks knowing how I felt about him :p
Anyway! Best of luck, I hope it's an amazing night for you!