Ali de Bold
on May 14, 2007 @ 03:17 pm|
I've been here a few times and have a few friends who are here now. It's always a really touchy subject, but what do you guys do if you hate the guy your friend is dating? Especially if he is treating her badly or he just isn't good enough. Do you stay quiet and help her pick up the pieces afterwards or do you risk your friendship by telling her how you feel?
|You gotta tell her! on May 14, 2007 @ 04:10 pm|
You have to tell her. If the relationship is strong enough, she'll understand that you're looking out for her well-being. She may not want to hear what you have to say and may even push you away for a while. But assuming you're right about her bad situation, she'll take it to heart and consider it in her own time. Most people really appreciate the truth, even if the truth hurts.
People come around. And if they don't, well, then, they're not the people you want in your life anyway.