on Feb 21, 2009 @ 01:48 am|
My mind wanders like crazy when i try to study..which is exactly whats been happening all day! During my wanderings I started thinking who am i now, who did i want to be? And that struck me as such a great topic that i'm posting it here :-)
So who are you? and who do you want to be? where did you think you'd be by now, and where are you now?
remember back when you were a child or teen and would think "when i grow up i want ......." how much of that is what you are and where you are now?
you guys start this off .. i'll say my bit just a bit later :)
|totally different on Feb 21, 2009 @ 11:09 am|
I had a completely different idea of my career path, family situation, etc. There is almost nothing the same as I had envisioned... BUT I wouldn't trade it now.
I was going to be a surgeon and wait on marriage and family, stay close to my home town or at least in the same country as my birth.
What did happen: I fell ridiculously in love at a young age, impulsively married, we moved to several different countries and now have 3 kids. I ended up getting a Bachelor's degree in Environmental Science (which satisfied the science geek in me to be sure!), and now live far from family and friends. I work for ChickAdvisor in a decidedly non-medical or non-scientific capacity.
Not what I would have ever expected or thought I wanted. But I can't imagine life any other way!
That's my story...
|I'm happy with my life but not where I thought I'd be on Feb 21, 2009 @ 11:10 am|
I never really knew what I wanted to be; I didn't have childhood dreams of becoming a dancer or an astronaut. Perhaps I just wasn't very ambitious as a child. However, one thing I knew for sure was that I didn't want to be a doctor.
If you had asked me 10 years ago, I probably would've told you I don't want kids. But now, I'm happily married with a little baby and we are already talking about having more kids.
If you had asked me 1 year ago whether I want to quit my job and stay home with my baby, I would've told you definitely no. But now that I have this little cutie-pie in my life, I am very sad to have to go back to work in the fall and if we could afford it, I would definitely choose to stay home to be a full time mom.
So I guess my answer to your question is: my life didn't turn out the way I thought it would but everything is working out perfectly. :)
|thank u for ur responses! on Feb 23, 2009 @ 07:17 pm|
hey girls thank u for ur responses! :) i'm still trying to formulate mine .... come on ladies keep these coming .. think! where are you now? where did you think you'd be? :)
|Who am I? Who did I think I would be? What do I want now? on Feb 26, 2009 @ 08:30 pm|
Who am I know? A life coach, partner, friend and confidant.
Who did I think I would be? I thought I would be a mother and a wife, perhaps going to school part time and helping by volunteering in my community.
To date no children and currently not married - not really looking to do the marriage thing again. I love what I do for a living. Helping others reach their highest and best is a dream career. I still volunteer my time, but in a professional capacity.
Who do I want to be? More of who I am now. Someone who continues to learn and grow. I progress a little like a tumbleweed. Sort of slow and letting my environment guide me along with instinct. When I was younger it was always push, push, push. I could not do anything or get anywhere fast enough. I want to continue to enjoy the pleasures of everyday life.
|i wanted........ on Mar 05, 2009 @ 12:35 pm|
I wanted to be a Pediatritian, a wife, a mother, a Rockstar, a Singer, an Actress, a lot of things....
|who i am/ who i want to be on Mar 06, 2009 @ 10:02 am|
When I was young I wanted to be a fashion designer or interior decorator. I was obsessed with home makeover shows.I used to draw clothing designs and furnitue designs in my sketch book.
When I got to highschool, I was really lazy and skipped school a lot. I thought I wasn't going to go anywhere in life, so I hoped someday in the future I'd win the lottery or marry a rich man - Hahaha.
Now I'm studying at a good university. I've worked at some amazing places and met lots of interesting people who have inspired me to do what I have achieved today.
As for the future, I'm not sure what I want to do yet, but I know I want to travel and try a bit of everything.
|bus driver, baby sitter, swimming teacher on Mar 06, 2009 @ 10:24 am|
If you asked me at age 5 or 6, that would have been my answer! I've come a long way from my original aspirations (not that there's anything wrong w/ them).
I remember an exercise I did in 3rd grade where the teacher asked up to list/prioritize life events and at what age they'd occur. I answered that I'd get a degree at 22. Work for a few years. Marry at 24. Have kids at 26. Well, I definitely got the order right, but not the ages.I finished both of my degrees by 24. I worked (and continue to work) and married at 30. We don't have kids yet, but plan to.
I think it is smart to have a loose life plan, but it would be unwise to try to adhere to it strictly. Life comes at you in unexpected and unplanned for ways. You have to adapt and overcome and redefine your path along the way.