on Jul 03, 2010 @ 03:12 pm

Well my boyfriend is in the army and he is deported.....he has been really bugging me about taking some x-rated pics for him....i told him that those kind of things always get out ...but he promised that no one will see them ..thats it's 4 his eyes only...i really trust him but i think that maybe one of his friends use the computer and might stumble upon them....ohh and his friends are my older brothers friends too...so u can imagine the  embarressment if they get out......but i really wanna make him happy...SO WHAT SHOULD I DO.....Help please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Be careful on Jul 04, 2010 @ 05:35 pm

Assuming that you don't have any identifying tattoos, piercings, etc. - you could take a few teaser pics that do not include your face.
Also, if you are feeling uncertain that someone else may see the pics, you could always pose in some sexy lingerie rather than fully naked.

if you don't feel comfortable... on Jul 04, 2010 @ 06:10 pm

I'd say if it makes you feel comfortable in any way, you shouldn't do it. racy pictures of you shouldn't be the only thing that makes him happy. You shouldn't feel bad about not fulfilling his request. Just because he is being deported, it doesn't mean he has a free pass to ask for things that you may not be comfortable with.

I guess if you really decide on sending him some pictures, anon's suggestions are not bad. But bottom line is, you shouldn't be forcing yourself to do things that you don't feel comfortable with!

What is comfortable for you... on Jul 05, 2010 @ 12:30 am

I agree with Mandy - if you feel uncomfortable about this, don't do it. This also goes for any special request in the bedroom or elsewhere regardless of your boyfriend's deployment. In fact, I think his asking because of his imminent departure is unfair pressure and inconsiderate. You really don't know for sure what will happen with those pics, and that's the bottom line. Even if he has the very best intentions, they can still accidentally land in the wrong hands.

Ali de Bold
They can be classy on Jul 05, 2010 @ 09:24 am

I do agree with the others that you should only do it if you feel comfortable, but I like Anonymous' suggestions for how you can do it without worrying about it getting out and embarrassing you. It can be classy. What makes those pictures the most awkward is if you are totally naked (if they get out) or any scenario where you put on your 'trying to be sexy face'. You know the one I'm talking about. We've all seen it on someone's pictures on Facebook. It's hard to look sexy without looking silly. Do some shots in a lace negligee or a great matching bra and undies set and try to relax. If you don't like them, don't hand them over.

Have fun!

Myself on Jul 07, 2010 @ 08:30 am

I'd still be a little worried about doing any completely nude pictures because now a days your face can be put on any pictures. Picture have bin photo shopped ever since the day came when we could do it.
Also if he really loves you he wouldn't be pressuring you to do something you're not comfortable with. It's not your fault he's being deported and he shouldn't make you feel bad because he is. I've seen first hand what can happen to picture like that and it's not pretty, you could end up having to live with it for the rest of your life and not in a good way. Things we say and post on the computer fallow us like they never did before and who's to say these picture won't end up on the net a few months down the road. I don't know how old you are, or how long you've bin with this guy, so please really think hard before you do something you made regret for the rest of your life. There's always other picture you can have done of your self that aren't completely nude. If he loves you, he'll under stand how you feel and all will be fine no matter what you decide to do. Just be sure it's the right thing for you first! Good luck and take care.


Just Do it on Jul 08, 2010 @ 04:04 pm

If you're not comfy with showing your whole self (meaning you your face) then take nice classy photos of yourself in a regular sitting position, but in a babydoll short gown - sexy, yet not too embarrassing if they are to get out. Oh, and promise him more once he gets home.

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