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Ladies (and guys), what are your opinions on men who pay women for sex (whether it be actual sex or just a 'massage')?
Personally, I think it absolutely disgusting...not only that someone could be so desperate as to pay an escort/prostitute, but also that they would want to have sex with a woman who was probably servicing ten guys that day before you came over.
I know someone who goes to these women, and every time I think about that it grosses me out so much and makes me want nothing to do with them.
So please tell me - what exactly is it about going to a woman who has sex with tons of men everyday and paying her, that is so 'sexy?'
Apr 22, 2007 @ 04:32 pm

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I know a guy who gets massages...

I know a guy who gets massages...
And guess what.. He IS single
Feb 19, 2016 @ 11:52 am

It cut off my comment..

Basically he told me that all types of men go to massages,
Single, married.. Wtv...
He told me in a nut shell that he seeked, services from sex workers because it was a no string attached relationship.. As well as if he Persuided a lady at a bar technically he would still be paying money for her, (buying her drinks..)
Feb 19, 2016 @ 11:56 am

It's not for me but...

it's always going to happen. But I agree with protecting these women. Legalize it, have clean brothels, mandatory STI checks for workers and clients, offer condoms, provide these women with the power to control their own bodies and what services they choose to provide. Have them managed by some governing body and cut out the pimps. It's unacceptable for a person to be forced into prostitution, but if a woman actually wants to be a prostitute, then let's try to protect these people.
I do not condone people going outside their relationships though.
Feb 20, 2016 @ 12:13 am

disgusting and degrating

I find it disgusting that a man does this and it's very degrating for the women involved
Feb 20, 2016 @ 08:13 am

Not my cup of tea

It would not be my cup of tea if i were a guy but it all depends on why they are going. Some men have a sexual addiction and ladies too.. I would be terrified of catching something and would be thinking the whole time who or how many she has been with... If it were my husband that would be it for us... I think if a lady pleases her man and keeps him happy in the bedroom then this would not be an issue for most... But yes i do agree.. It is gross!
Mar 01, 2016 @ 05:14 pm

Who knows

i don't know and I don't care. It's beyond revolting. Would never touch anyone I knew had done it.
Mar 04, 2016 @ 09:20 pm


I agree with sjm79 in that if I were a guy, I don't think I would want to do it.
But I also agree with KristineJCookson in that we need to protect the women. Who knows what situations in their life led them there? They deserve the right to be protected.
Mar 07, 2016 @ 10:21 am


i find it very repulsive. Enough said.
Apr 09, 2017 @ 11:26 am


I agree, it is awful. These women are treated so poorly & paying them is only supporting that.
May 08, 2017 @ 02:45 pm


I think the whole thing is a slippery slope of morality. Some people need it because they have no other way to make money and if there is demand there will always be a supply. Whether that supply is consensual or forced is the question. Most laws target the prostitutes in question instead of their pimps,agencies etc.

A lot of women and men who are in this line of work are desperate or have been forced into this situation. That's why I don't agree with people buying these services. Regardless of what you think about the situation you are paying someone to do something. This is not like paying a gardener to do your lawn. This is paying someone to have access to their body. Even if the women/men are completely "consenting" the situation itself is not. You are in a position of power whereby their means of income depends on your satisfaction

This is where people can take advantage. Higher payed "escorts" who work for $1000 or more a night have higher protections but most prostitution is dirty and on the streets. There is no human rights there.

The idea of buying a human being in such a way sickens me, I would not want to be treated in such a way and I don't know how other people can detach themselves so much from the humanity of it all that they would treat others this way.
May 09, 2017 @ 10:03 pm

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