What Men Want?

hunter_jc

Since we talked so much about what girl expects from a guy. And what a girl want. Do you girls know what a guy really want?
Since I had only one real relationship before. And it was really a beginner lesson.
Can anyone tell what their men really want?

hunter_jc

Clarify

I mean I only had one real girlfriend before. So i didnt really know what i really wanted. I think i wanted a girlfriend. That was what i really wanted.

Ali de Bold

A couple of guesses

Beer. Sex. Peace and Quiet.


Did I miss anything? ;)

spotty

here! here!

MC's got it right ... beer and sex ... though not sure on the order! ;-)

reeshie19

HEHEHE

besides all of that i know my boyfriend really enjoys the simple things in life.we always doing such odd but romantic things like picnicing on Signal Hill (which is part of our Table mountain range-has an AMAZING view if any of you decide to come this side)...he tends to enjoy this more than clubbing or anthing else.i think those days are over:) i think a guy wants a girl to just 'get' what he is saying and be understanding.and definately,a guy does NOT want a girl to nag and whine.... i think i know all this coz i've learnt from my mistakes:)

Feisty Redhead

food

Don't forget food... lol My boyfriend always wants some yummy food in addition to the beer and sex. lol

No really; I honestly haven't got a clue. But whatever it is I'm glad he seems to have found it in me. My boyfriend and I are not just a couple, we are best friends and we were best friends for a long time before ever becoming "us" but despite all that time as just friends I still don't get what's going on in his mind half the time. He feels the same way about me so we're even!

hunter_jc

Disagree with Beer and Sex part

Well Beer and Sex would be grouped into food. It is more for physiological needs than emotion or mental needs. I agree with the peace though. Well the man must see his girlfriend regularly. He needs that. I know that women can not see their men for a while. Like when they are "thinking" about things or their relationship. That always drive the men crazy.

Anonymous

can't generalize

I don't think anyone can generalize and say that a man must see his girlfriend regularly etc. It depends on the man, depends on the woman, depends on the relationship.

allychick_ling

what men want

Scotch. Sex. Fine Food. Good Conversation.

allychick_ling

plus..

And giving him space to hang out with his buddies.

artist

Your time.

I think one of the important things that men also want is your time to spend with them. We can get really busy... caught up in school, work, volunteering... etc etc. Make sure to set time apart for your honey.... otherwise he might feel left out unimportant to you.

This works the other way too. Partners need space from each other too from time to time!