Sexual Dream About My Father... Please HELP!


So to start off I would just like to say I have NO sexual attraction to my dad what so ever.
My child hood was normal, was never sexually harassed or abused by him...
But this dream really freaked me out.
I am 21, been living on my own since I was 18. My relationship with my parents is great, I see them multiple times a week and always have Sunday dinner together.
But last night I woke up from this terrible dream (i apologize, its graphic, so don't read ahead if that will bother you);
What i can remember is I was sitting at a table with a bunch of people including my parents.
My dad turned to me and was talking to me about something - I don't remember what, and then he put his hand down my pants and started stroking my clit ring. I tried to push him off but he wouldn't stop and he started getting upset that I had my clit pierced but wouldn't stop rubbing it. In the dream I was mad and upset and scared but my body felt good from the stimulation. I finally got him away from me and ran and hid in my room feeling really violated and upset. Not much later I woke up... Still feeling upset, violated and very confused.

What does this mean?
Apr 25, 2012 @ 04:01 pm

16 Replies


A dream is just a dream....

I know those kind of dreams can really creep you out, but try not reading too much into it! Dreams often are just that, dreams! I tend to over think dreams too, but I got some great advice from the ladies on here to not obsess or read too much into them! They don't always make any sense! And I definitely don't think this particular dream indicates any sexual interest in your dad at all! Maybe Google some dream interpretations if you're really curious or if it's bothering you... but don't drive yourself nuts over it!
Apr 26, 2012 @ 03:43 pm

let it go

it's just a dream, everybody dreams different, don't worry too much, just let it go,
May 03, 2012 @ 10:19 pm

You Need to Resolve Something

Incest is absolutely disgusting, and you should go to a therapist--a GOOD ONE that you can talk to about this and not just any old creep behind a desk, PLEASE. THIS IS A SERIOUS ISSUE. Dreams are just dreams, yes, but they give us a lot of insight on what is going on underneath the surface. The stuff that haunts us now can creep back into our lives and damage us at anytime in the future so it's best to take care of your issues NOW. I don't know if you should say anything to your father because that would be too disgusting, so maybe you should just write in a journal, because maybe your life is imbalanced and YOU need to be healthier so you don't have such disgusting dreams. Also, you father is beyond help, FYI.
May 03, 2012 @ 10:48 pm


This could just be your minds way of telling you your dad would disapprove of something, perhaps a decision you've made recently that has been worrying you, and is in fact not sexual at all. Dreams are almost never meant to be literal, they are usually metaphors for other events in our lives that we don't know how to solve or understand consciously.
May 04, 2012 @ 04:03 am

I agree with @vlicious and @cherryycc - don't worry too much about this, a dream is just a dream sometimes and mean nothing at all. Sometimes I think that these crazy weird dreams we have are just the wires in our head getting crossed. Don't worry about this.
May 04, 2012 @ 10:27 am

what the ..??

Incest is disgusting - agreed. That's about the only thing I agree with in your little rant. She is imbalanced because she had an awful dream? Her father is beyond help!?!? Why is her father beyond help??? You do understand that she has a great relationship with her parents, and she just had a bad dream, right? You do get that don't you?

I think YOU need to SEEK HELP!! PLEASE! THIS IS SERIOUS. Making ignorant comments online behind the safety of ones monitor is well and good, but your comments make you sound imbalanced and that has to be taken seriously. You need to see a GOOD therapist! Not just some old creep behind a desk, but a GOOD ONE because you don't want the confusion, paranoia and the uncalled for excitement this dream from an unknown person is inspiring in you to transcend into your REAL LIFE and haunt your future!

I had a dream that I shaved your head and inserted a brain that kept you from making insulting and judgmental comments concerning other peoples parents. Should I turn myself in and seek help for my sick sick mind? lol. Really, relax.

I'm sure we've all had dreams where we're running from some zombie or the swamp thing. We wake up, adrenaline pumping with fear and the need to flee. That doesn't mean we need to get up and run and hide. Emotions from a dream continues on for the first little while after we wake up, that doesn't mean we should act on them or be judged on them!
May 04, 2012 @ 12:46 pm


That sounds like a terrible dream and it's going to be a hard one to shake off, but trust me, shake it off!
You sound like you have a great relationship with your parents and dreams are just dreams! :)

I haven't shared this with many people and I'm shocked that I'm putting it out there now, but I once had a very graphic sexual dream about Tony Soprano. There were dead bodies and I'm pretty sure I was a stripper and he knocked me around. It was disturbing but all you can do is laugh about it. I'm sure it was just because I was watching a lot of Sopranos and I'm sure it's just because your father might be on your mind. Not sexually, just on your mind! Maybe you're nervous he'll find out about your piercing? Maybe it was just completely random!

But don't stress, lady!! It was just a dream not reality and life goes on :)
If you're feeling weird about it it's probably just because you're embarrassed. Don't be! We can't control our dreams :)

May 04, 2012 @ 01:33 pm

Dont stress

I cannot dishypher dreams (nor can I spell that word) however generally dreams have different meanings such as if you dream of new life it means death or the reverse I don't remember. However as someone mentioned above I've had dreams of a wolf chasing me, in real life they are not. Maybe it's symbolic for something else in life I'm uncertain but my innocent young kids sometimes have nightmares of monsters and snakes, well monsters are not real and almost all little kids have the same dream.

I want to give you props for being so brave to post this on here and hopefully you are able to forget about this and let it go.
May 05, 2012 @ 01:02 pm

RE: what the ..??

Yes. Her father is beyond help, at least, for her, as my advice is to keep her distance from him. Dreams have a way of telling you what is going on beneath the surface. I've taken a psychology course, before, honey. I've read about dreams. This is not coming out of my ass. Yes, I get that she had a bad dream. It's obvious.

If my comments were THAT ignorant, they would be removed by a moderator, as there are moderators on this site. I was just trying to help that girl out. That's what this site is for, isn't it? Aren't you doing the same thing, by making comments online, behind the safety of your monitor? Isn't that why people comment in forums? My comment was not directed at you, so don't you worry about me. Mind your own business and direct what you need to direct at that girl that is asking for help. Come on. Everybody has their own opinion. Everybody has learned something that might help another, and I was just sharing what I knew. Can't blame me for that. Why would I need to see a therapist? Did I share a creepy story with you? Did I ask you for advice? The answer is no, honey. Are you trying to instill paranoia, confusion, and excitement in me? Are you fat? I bet you are fatter than I am.

Don't lie, dear. You don't have to get so jealous. You want to be a 'betty' like everyone else? I might be lurking in your subconscious if you are dreaming about me honey. Don't flatter me too much. You want to turn yourself in? Go ahead. Are you answering your own questions?

I never told that chick to run and hide. I just know that her and her father are too close for comfort, whether she consciously knows that or not. And the fact that she liked it in her dream is disgusting, so I guess I am being unhelpful by being judgmental, but I was just sharing my thoughts. I'm no psychologist, and I will most likely never be one. I never claimed to be one.

All I know is that I won't be the one to be blamed if her dreams get worse. You on the other hand...

May 06, 2012 @ 05:54 pm

RE: Dreams

Yeah, I agree that life goes on.

May 06, 2012 @ 05:55 pm

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