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New Gynocologist ???

Scents Of Peace

Okay, we ALL hate this necessary evil, so here's my question . . . What do you look for in a gynocologist ? Outside of personality, I was wondering what most women prefer - male or female and why ?
Dec 22, 2006 @ 02:02 am

6 Replies


Female, just cause.

I think most women would feel like another worman would most understand their feminine concerns., after all, they have the same anatomy! I guess also I just wouldn't feel comfortable having a male doctor poke me down there.
Dec 25, 2006 @ 02:27 pm

I've had both...

I've had several experiences with both, mainly for pregnancy/delivery. The male doctors were actually gentler, I think because they are scared of hurting you. The women on the other hand were less careful; I could almost hear them thinking "get over it lady, we've all been there!" Having said that, they were able to anticipate some of my questions and concerns better, and yes, I was overall more comfortable talking to a woman about certain things. My feeling would be that it absolutely comes down to the individual doctor and I don't really care about the gender. Well, if I'm truly honest, it's that I have had 3 babies and in each case I had several doctors from each practice check me out, plus the residents and other hospital staff, so I'm way beyond embarassment anyway.
Dec 28, 2006 @ 11:22 am
Ali de Bold

I've had both too

I think it depends on the person. Overall, I prefer a woman though I've never had a bad experience with a man. I also prefer it not to be my family doctor doing those kinds of examinations because if he knows me well I'd rather him not know all of me. I just find it awkward.
Jan 04, 2007 @ 11:22 am

Female preferred...

Yea I prefer a female because I feel like she would better understand what I mean when I say things since she has the same anatomy. I have never had a bad experience with a male gynecologist but I definitely have to say that the comfort level was much higher with a female.
Jan 09, 2007 @ 04:30 pm

Looking for a new doc...

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Jan 25, 2007 @ 02:25 pm
Scents Of Peace

Interesting feedback !

The reason I asked was because I've had both - both good, both bad.

When I delivered my son, I had a woman OB, but later switched to a male GYN and currently see a male. The woman doc was nice enough and professional to the hilt, but I felt that she had the "I'm a woman too, so toughen up" attitude. I was in my twenties and a high-risk pregnancy so I didn't stay with her any longer than I had to afterwards. Later, I had a health scare while under the care of a male GYN that required emergency surgery. Both he and his partner were the gentlest and most considerate I've ever seen and treated me like I was made of glass. I had excellant care . . .

Now I see a male GYN, and although he seems to be a great doc and easy to get along with, I haven't figured him out yet. My one peeve is that he doesn't feel the need to "warn" you when he's about to do something. I guess to keep you from flintching ?? Other than that . . . we get along just fine ;-)

I agree with Misschickie about not having my family doctor being the same for those issues. I also agree with Mamaluv about her comments concerning gender and had the same experiences. I guess to sum it up the ideal doc would have the knowledge of a woman, but a healthy fear of hurting you that a man has !
Feb 03, 2007 @ 12:37 am

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