
Anonymous
I really need advice. I just found out I am pregnant. Unfortunately the guy I was with was never really my boyfriend. After seeing each other for a while I told him sexual monogamy was important to me for my health and he said he could not make that commitment. So I ended things. Then our paths crossed again and after a couple beers I went home with him like an idiot. He started doing things to me that I did not like and told him to stop but he didn’t until I finally started yelling. Afterwards I went into his bathroom to cry and clean up and noticed things that obviously belonged to another female (make up, hairbrush, etc) and it just made me feel even worse about myself. He would get a hold of me from time to time but I never knew what to say until finally I told him not to contact me. Then of course a month later I find out I’m pregnant. I don’t want this baby and I don’t want the the constant reminder for the next 8 months of my stupidity and that horrific night. He clearly has other girls he sleeps with so I’m almost positive he doesn’t want this baby either. But I don’t know if I should tell him that I’m even pregnant. I want to, to give him the chance of giving his opinion, but I don’t know if it’s a good idea or if he deserves it. I’m so sad, and hormonal and driving myself crazy thinking about it. Please help.
I really need advice. I just found out I am pregnant. Unfortunately the guy I was with was never really my boyfriend. After seeing each other for a while I told him sexual monogamy was important to me for my health and he said he could not make that commitment. So I ended things. Then our paths crossed again and after a couple beers I went home with him like an idiot. He started doing things to me that I did not like and told him to stop but he didn’t until I finally started yelling. Afterwards I went into his bathroom to cry and clean up and noticed things that obviously belonged to another female (make up, hairbrush, etc) and it just made me feel even worse about myself. He would get a hold of me from time to time but I never knew what to say until finally I told him not to contact me. Then of course a month later I find out I’m pregnant. I don’t want this baby and I don’t want the the constant reminder for the next 8 months of my stupidity and that horrific night. He clearly has other girls he sleeps with so I’m almost positive he doesn’t want this baby either. But I don’t know if I should tell him that I’m even pregnant. I want to, to give him the chance of giving his opinion, but I don’t know if it’s a good idea or if he deserves it. I’m so sad, and hormonal and driving myself crazy thinking about it. Please help.
May 15, 2018 @ 12:53 pm