Awkward question .... Anal??


Please be honest with your answers.

Are your spouses / partners into anal sex?
Me personally, I am not for it but I know my partner would love it. I will never give into it but I know he watches anal porn, probably more than I think he watches it,
So I guess my question is ... Is it normal for a guy to be so interested into anal sex or could it mean something more? Could he be interested in men and this is his only way to fulfil
His desires ... With straight anal
Porn? Tmi - but he does like his doggie and it gets him more excited imo than missionary.
Once he even bought a sex you home and it was for him of an ass. Man I was ticked!!
Anyhow pls honest answers ... Pls!
Jun 10, 2016 @ 12:19 am

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My fear

This is definitely my fear,
To marry a man I believe loves
Me but turns out he's gay. I don't know what I would
Do. I don't know the answer but every man is different
T. What's normal and what's not I have no idea ....
Jun 10, 2016 @ 12:45 am


Oh wow, this is an awkward topic.

I personally not into the whole anal thing - I think it's exit only. (that's just me)
I did used to hang out with a bung of guys so to answer your question truthfully!
It is actually pretty normal for your spouse to be into those positions. A lot of my male friends which I used to hang out with all the time. Honestly, that is all they talk about. Sad, I know but I"m telling you the truth. It's a weird fantasy of theirs, I just left it as it's a guy thing.

As to being worried if your spouse is gay - nah I wouldn't worry about. I think every women has that fear at one point to another because sometimes men could and can do weird things attack our insecurities in one way or another.

I have a gay cousin which I'm extremely close too and love to hang out with his gay friends as well. They all told me the the strongest signs of a man being gay is that he's into designer bags, hairdresser, very good taste in fashion and things like that.(pretty much they could think like a women) Believe it or not they don't talk about sex all that much. They are into a lot of partying and going all out when they party.

I hope I helped with your concerns :) These are just some of the things I learnt either first hand from a gay mans point of view and hanging out with a lot of straight men as well.
Jun 10, 2016 @ 04:21 am


Sorry I meant a "BUNCH" of guys on my third sentence (not a bung) LOL
Jun 10, 2016 @ 04:22 am


I think it's completely normal for a guy to be interested in anal, I've heard a lot of guys say how much they like it or would like to do it. I don't think it has anything to do with being gay, maybe it's something he's never done with a girl and he's extremely interested in it and that's why he watches it so much. All guys love doggie! Lol. I don't think you have anything to worry about.
Jun 10, 2016 @ 08:08 am


I wouldn't be concerned at all. It's a very common fantasy. Some guys are into it because their friends all talk about it and don't want to feel left out; some I guess it's the curiosity factor. I would think some want to try it because it's still somewhat taboo of a topic, and "being naughty" may get them going.
And really...I think most guys are into it because it's a different sensation for them, going into a tight space like that.
There's a plethora of reasons your guy could be curious, being a closeted homosexual is sooooo far down the list.

PS...this may be TMI...but it can be quite enjoyable if you're with a partner your trust.
Jun 10, 2016 @ 09:21 am


I've heard guys are into this. I don't judge what others get up to in the bedroom at all, but for me it's a biiiiig no. I even told my husband that maybe when we're very old and bored we'll change our minds, but I'm so happy he feels the same way I do.

Whenever I hear about someone enjoying it, my husband and I look each other deep in the eyes and I know what we are both thinking (as it's a joke between us).

"But that's where poop comes from."
Jun 10, 2016 @ 09:25 am


I'm sorry, dollysgramma...we seem to disagree again. I personally don't find this post offensive at all. Sex is a very normal and natural (and beautiful) thing. When women get together, talk will occasionally turn to awkward subjects such as this. Awkward maybe...but hardly offensive or inappropriate.
Anonymous was clearly worried about this topic and came to what she felt was a safe environment to ask about it. Sometimes you just can't ask friends or family, which to me seems to be the case as Anonymous is posting...well...anonymously.
Jun 10, 2016 @ 10:58 am


I agree also, I'm not offended at all. I think it's ok to ask others about things your unsure of. I think questions about sex are completely fine, I would only find something offensive or inappropriate if there were someone being mean or rude toward another chick on here, other than that I will discuss pretty much anything.
Jun 10, 2016 @ 11:05 am

Sorry to have offended

Dolly sorry I have offended you. I feel this is a topic that should be addressed for many women as I'm sure I'm not the only one with concerns. I love my husband dearly and would just die if our marriage was fake on his end. I need to know if this is normal for other couples or if I do have an issue. It's awesome to see that other ladies have the same fears and that I'm not alone. If this is the wrong place then I'm confused exactly what this forum is used for ... This is a relationship question and you don't have to respond if you don't want to. This question was meant for people who would like to ease my mind or perhaps make me worry lol.
Jcb thank you for sticking up for me. This post isn't a joke and reading the few replies I have, have helped me realize it's probably normal. I can relax.
I actually don't worry about this out of the bedroom but while in the bedroom it does pose concern sometimes. He doesn't ever try to force that upon me but without being too much in detail I just know he'd like to try and I don't and he's okay with that.
Glad I'm not alone. Thanks for answering and if still love to hear others opinions.
Jun 10, 2016 @ 11:12 am


Oh honey, of course you would be traumatized by that. I'm so sorry you went through that.
Jun 10, 2016 @ 11:29 am

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