Boyfriend And I Stopped Being Intimate

Anonymous

Should I be worried that he is cheating or not attracted to me......
Apr 01, 2016 @ 03:49 pm

17 Replies

RaeBlair

No!

There are so many contributing factors as to why a couples' sex life goes off-course or downhill. None of the leading factors include cheating! Although it's easy to let yourself become concerned that if he "isn't getting it at home, he might be getting it somewhere else" don't give in to these thoughts, as they can be poisonous to your relationship.

Talk to him. Ask how he is feeling. Is he stressed? Is he sick? Is he depressed?

How has your connection been lately? Have you been arguing?

Usually, sex becomes lesser when another aspect of the relationship is lacking. It's an effect, not a cause. Examine and heal other parts of your relationship that may be in hot water and your intimacy should return.
Apr 01, 2016 @ 03:52 pm
b3ckb3ck

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Best thing to do would be to talk to him about it.

I personally went through something similar, and it turns out he had in fact cheated on me and then we ended the relationship. This isn't necessarily the case for everyone.. He could be going through some personal struggles or issues at work etc.. Its surprising what factors can affect intimacy.

Stay positive though and just communicate! :)
Apr 01, 2016 @ 04:01 pm
KrissiC

Talk about it

It does t mean heating. He could be stressed or depressed. So many things could be going on internally for him that you cannot see. Gently approach him and ask if anything is wrong? Just talk to him.
Apr 01, 2016 @ 04:04 pm
LarochelleV

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I wouldnt be worried if thats the only thing going on. I agree though, absolutely talk it over with him before jumping to any conclusions. It could be something going on with him that literally has nothing to do with you.
Apr 01, 2016 @ 05:04 pm
Anonymous

intimacy

I would have to say that if there is no intimacy in a relationship there is no relationship. If this guy is young and healthy and had a good relationship with you, chances are there has to be a good reason for his lack of interest. It could be someone else or whatever.Just ask, get an answer. Maybe it's time to move on.
Apr 01, 2016 @ 06:43 pm
Anonymous

No intimacy = no relationship?!

Sorry dollysgramma I have to disagree. Relationships go through highs and lows and this could simply be a low.
Apr 01, 2016 @ 08:36 pm
vanessanemeth

Dating Divas

I found this American Website A while ago called Dating Divas. They have some great tips and fun activities to keep the romance alive and fun. There are so many great love notes, game, date nigth ideas and printables for you to surprise your significant other with. I've taken part in a few like putting love notes in his lunch box and a scavenger hunt in his car this the end result being everything we would need to a night at a drive-in movie. I have pinned some of their ideas on my pinterest board found https://www.pinterest.com/cessalee821/treat-him-like-a-prince-little-surprises-he-deserv/
Aug 10, 2016 @ 10:47 am
gennylee76

be yourself

don't worry, have confidence in yourself
Aug 10, 2016 @ 12:32 pm
fredamans

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It happens. Just talk to him and try to make time for each other.
Aug 11, 2016 @ 02:24 pm
Victoriastokesxo

Don't assume :)

Don't just assume things, take it slow & ask him questions
Aug 12, 2016 @ 01:26 am

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