on Aug 18, 2009 @ 01:57 am|
i am a cutter and im not to ashamed to admit it anymore because i have
made the decision to get the help i need. i have been keeping this from
my boyfriend but i finally opened up to him expecting him to be there
for me and help me over come this. but instead he broke up with
me...what do you think about this??
|asking him for help on Aug 18, 2009 @ 10:08 am|
Right now I think you need somebody that is going to be there for you while you try to recover. I think you need to turn to a family member or a best friend that will be there for you in the long run.
Try not to stress over a guy that obvously is not a very caring or an understanding person.(i know it is easier said than done), but for now you have a lot on your plate as it is.
I hope this helps and I wish you all the luck!!!
|... on Aug 18, 2009 @ 06:54 pm|
You should definitely not be ashamed of being a cutter....and good for you for admitting it and seeking help. As for your boyfriend, well he seems to be quite immature and you are better off without him. Or maybe he just doesn't know how to deal with this situation...were you in a long-term relationship with him? Did he never notice your cuts? How did you hide it from him? Maybe he is upset because you lied to him in the past...I don't know but one thing is for sure..you should be concentrating on getting better. Good luck...
|hello on Aug 18, 2009 @ 10:09 pm|
I think that the answer to this is pretty simple, keep your head up and get all the help that you feel you need from people that want to and will be there for you. If he made a decision to walk away after you told him, then he really isnt someone who should be in your life anyways. Times get hard in every relationship and if he cant be there for you now when your goin trough something so personal that you decided to share with him then he could never handle other problems in life that come up no matter how perfect everything seems to be. Im so happy that you decided to be honest and get the help you need, make sure you reach out to people you trust and they will be behind you all the way im sure.