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help ...im dating a man that appears not have a lot of feelings or compassion ...just our 3rd date but shouldnt he be a lil open about himself ,,,or am i in a hurry ...i have not dated in yrs so help chicks !!!!
Feb 21, 2017 @ 06:51 am

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Hi Blubie :) Is he asking you lots about yourself? Is he not answering questions you're asking? Tell us a bit more. Three dates is still very new but usually thats the time to get to know one another.
Feb 21, 2017 @ 07:15 am


The fact that you have had 3 dates means all can't be that bad Remember, he could just be shy. A guy that is not interested in you does not go on 3 dates. You must be doing something right so relax and enjoy his company and see where it develops.
Feb 21, 2017 @ 09:11 am


Very good point...he could just be shy. My advice is to relax and enjoy just dating. However...if he is hiding everything about himself, it's a bit of a red flag.
Feb 21, 2017 @ 09:39 am


i think i will see him again and see if he opens up ..yes wants to know everything about me but shuffles around my questions ...which mine are just normal things one would ask lol so im not sure ...
Feb 21, 2017 @ 12:51 pm


You might want to bring it up if it's making you feel uncomfortable or anxious. He may be doing it innocently and not even realizing that it's a problem or like the other ladies have said, he may be shy. Some people are so used to listening to others that they may not even realize that they aren't sharing the same amount of information. On the other hand, if you feel that he's purposely withholding information from you and expects you to tell him everything about yourself, that's not right. It should be a two way street and if by the next few dates, he still can't open up, then I would let him know that it can't become a healthy relationship this way. Listen to what your gut is telling you. It's usually right.

Feb 21, 2017 @ 07:08 pm

Great advice

Thank always such great input . i see him tonight so i will keep u pisted!!!
Feb 21, 2017 @ 09:23 pm


Wishing you the best with your 4th date :)
Feb 22, 2017 @ 05:15 am


Hey Blubie, thinking of you! How did your date go?
Feb 24, 2017 @ 12:30 pm


Enjoy it and relax as well. One thing I do is to try to prepare and check some questions I would like to ask. At the end of the day, it's all about having shared and common interests to be able to spend good time getting to know each other
Feb 25, 2017 @ 07:17 am


Maybe ask the guy what he is feeling? I had the same issue but I had to end it as I cant be the one who was always initating everything plus it ended up we didn't want the same things in life

Mar 01, 2017 @ 08:26 am

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