Does he really like me? Or is he just a player?


Ok...1st off..Guys are extremely confusing. So long story short..I am uncertain of whether my crush really likes me..

Now here comes the story...I met this handsome, extremely intelligent, friendly guy one day.. and I instantly had a crush on him.. At first I thought it was infatuation but later I knew it was not just that.. We got to know each other more over the next few months over facebook and then im-ing and then finally texting... Here are some of the details: he confessed he had a crush on me, he said he dreamed about me, he said he wants to go out on a date with me someday, he said he cares about me more than his friends, he said he wants to be my personal fitness trainer, he said he thought I was pretty..Once he showed his true concern about me......One day he even jokingly asked me to marry him, and I said idk and ever since then he called me Wifey...and the list practically goes on...but here's the catch..the real problem, I can't tell whether he actually likes me...because he never texted me first...sure he always replies to my initial text and tries to keep the conversations going and I can tell he loves talking to me...but I still don't know..I'm so unsure..what if he's just being polite?  We haven't texted in a week because I don't want to text him first...I don't want to bug feels like I'm nagging...but it's so weird..idk.. I just can't tell if he truly likes me like he once claimed... Recently, my bestfriend texted him and

Apr 02, 2012 @ 06:31 pm

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continuing on..

told him to stop playing with me ...and he told her "Look I just trust myself right now..she's not the reason" and then he texted me...but that was the only time he texted me first...His first text message was like "Why haven't you texted me? Sorry.. that was insensitive...How've you been?" and then ya..that was pretty much our last conversation...
Apr 02, 2012 @ 06:34 pm

Don't chase too hard!

The best advice I can give you in a situation of chasing is that if he isn't at least doing half the chasing, then it's not worth your time and heart. I always fall into the trap of doing the chasing and it always ends the same way, me investing a lot of time into someone who really doesn't care!

I would say to not be the one to always message, and if you notice that he has stopped, then there is your answer! The real guy you're meant to be with will only be too happy to call or text you! He'll want to talk to you all the time! :)
Apr 04, 2012 @ 11:27 am

It Depends...

Well there could actually be another reason why he isn't the one to initially text because sometimes guys are just to lazy to text or don't always know what to say first. For instance, I've been going out with my boyfriend for a little over 3 years and I find that he just isn't the type to text often. He loves talking in person but when it comes to texts, I'm always the one that texts him first. Of course I get upset that he barely texts me first but I mean I guess all guys are different. In your case he could either be just to lazy to text (or doesn't enjoy texting) or simply that he may just be taking advantage of you and you shouldn't be putting in the time and effort unless he is giving you the same back.

I hope it all works out for you! :)
Apr 04, 2012 @ 05:49 pm

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