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Getting over and Ex

Anonymous

I am dating a amazing guy, I love him to death. but I cant help but think of my ex every once in a while. We were together for 8 years, he was my first love.

We havent been talking in months, He started dating my friend and since it been drama after drama, She tells lies to him about eveything, and they even went to low as emailing my boss trying to get me fired.

I just dont know what to do.. Part of me is like leave it, they will get what they deserve, Karmas a bitch! But the other part seeks revenge! I dont know what but I want to make them unhappy... Just cause..

I am sure this is making no sense... but I need help...lol...
just to make sure I am not the crazy one.. It is straining my new relationship, and I just want it all to go away, its like as soon as I am forgetting him and moving on, he seems to keep comming up.
Feb 06, 2009 @ 02:22 pm

2 Replies


Ali de Bold

What??

He is collaborating with his new girlfriend (YOUR FRIEND) to try and get you fired?? I think your first instinct to leave it is best. They will only make themselves look foolish and if you stoop to participate it will also make you look bad. I hope you aren't friends with that girl anymore. That's two strikes.

As to the part about thinking about him on and off, this is totally normal. You were together for a really long time and like you said he was your first love. Getting over a first love is not fun and it can take a really long time. It took me years to get over my first love.

I think the best thing you can do is to continue investing your energy in your new relationship.

On a side note, I'm surprised your ex would participate in those schemes. It seems really childish to me. That alone should give you reason to stop thinking about him.
Feb 06, 2009 @ 03:24 pm
Anonymous 3546

Think of it this way...

If you want to get over him, I mean really get over him, let it go.
There is an old saying the opposite of love is indifference not hate.
If you continue to be angry and want to engage in their games you are still connected.
As much as you can take a different path and focus on you and your new relationship.

Jen
Feb 07, 2009 @ 07:44 pm

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